I set them to close automatically after 24 hours, because I have having more tabs open than I can track. I explicitly don’t use them as “read later” bookmarks.

Not much relevant in there to folk who have had bottom surgery.

You were banned because you posted lolicon art.

I’d just leave that specific terminology out of it, and talk about your experiences.

You’re subject line is needlessly conflating a community and an instance… This was a community mod action, not a blahaj instance action.

No label really describes my experience well, so I just call myself queer.

Oof. I went through that in 2022. Hope recovery is smooth

That’s what it felt like to me the first little while.

No thanks, that idea can fuck right off. Disadvantaged minorities gain their rights by creating social friction. When you don’t have power, playing nice and just hoping one day the people in power will stop being awful doesn’t work. Every single human rights advancement for minority groups has come about because those groups agitated and fought for them.

Fostering care and social bonds is also important for our mental health as the world gets more and more anti trans. But that’s a coping strategy, not a strategy to fix anything.

You’re not giving it away. You still get a feed in rate. And if you installed a battery at the same time, you can avoid the peak charges that kick in after the solar peak has passed.

This is a screenshot from the AER PDF on the solar sharer program, which you can find here https://www.aer.gov.au/system/files/2026-05/AER - Solar Sharer Offer fact sheet - DMO 8 final determination.pdf

I’m in Queensland, so the Energex rates apply. The base tariff rate is 26c until 11am, then free for 3 hours. Then 8c for 2 hours and then 49c between 4 and 9pm. My memory was off, and it’s only double the rate, but my point still stands. The peak time is a lot more expensive on the solar sharer plan, so you need to do the maths and make sure your usage will be shifted towards the free period and away from the peak, because if your highest usage is in the peak period and you don’t mitigate that, you could end up paying more on the solar sharer plan. You can absolutely save money on the SSO, and we use it for that reason, but you can also end up out of pocket.

No, I normally look for reviews rather than pla throughs. That being said, one of my favourite games (Tokaido) is one I discovered from a Wil Weaton playthrough

This is what I was going to say!

Every planetoid from about a third of the mass of the moon upwards is going to be ovoid rather than flat, because of the impact of its own gravity on its shape.

Calling anyone anything they have told you makes them uncomfortable is a statement of how much you value their discomfort.

Your housemate is telling you how much they value your discomfort.

Sorry for the egginess.

You don’t need to apologise for trying to find yourself in a world that makes that really hard!

The way I described dex is that it helped me stay on task, but did absolutely nothing to help me start a task

Gifted student, never studied, until it all fell apart in university. Aphantasia, no internal monologue. Multiple rounds with doctors, insisting on prescribing anti anxiety meds, despite not experiencing anxiety. Getting dropped by doctors, and having to repeat the whole process again… Prescribed a pure dex based medication, which helped, but also didn’t…

The only places our stories really diverge is that I was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult, and I still haven’t had any luck getting a medication that works for me…

These things (though it’s an old picture)

Omarchy is a product of David Heinemeier Hansson, who calls for, among other things, the mass deportation of non white folk from Europe and “Western Nations” in general. He’s also transphobic, but that’s a much smaller part of his catalogue of hate than his racism.