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A community for genderless, gender neutral, or just people who don’t feel a very strong connection with gender.

Migrated from Reddthat due to their lack of care with the threads federation situation.

We are also on Matrix.

Rules:

Rule 1: No Bigotry

Any form of bigotry including but not limited tp Homophobia, Transphobia, Enbyphobia, Aphobia, Racism, and Ableism is absolutely unacceptable and will not be tolerated.

Rule 2: No Gatekeeping

Gatekeeping practices like Transmedicalism are absolutely unacceptable and will not be tolerated. We aim to be as inclusive as possible to people with non-standard Gender Modalities, please try to consider that before making potentially invalidating statements (i.e. arguing that someone who doesn’t ID as trans is “technically trans”. In addition egg culture or similar things surrounding the enforcement of gender stereotypes are unacceptable here.

Note, Ignorance isn’t punished, intentional arguing/debating will not be tolerated.

Rule 3: No Spam or off topic posts

Do not post spam or off-topic posts on this community, this includes blatant advertising or self-promotion. Discussions about personal experiences don’t fall under this.

Rule 4: Report violations

Report users who violate the rules or are making bad faith arguments. Do not encourage people to ignore violations or block people instead of reporting, this frustrates the moderation process.

Rule 5: Have fun and be Respectful

Self-explanatory

Note: This instance has downvotes disabled, any downvotes will not federate. This instance was chosen explicitly because LGBTQIA/MOGAI are often downvoted for openly being themselves.

Visibility: Public

This community can be federated to other instances and be posted/commented in by their users.

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Modlog

Blåhaj Lemmy

A general purpose lemmy instance for gender diverse folk and their allies.

Blåhaj Lemmy

Blåhaj Lemmy is brought to you by the kind folk at Blåhaj Zone, and while anyone is free to register for an account here, please bear in mind that this is a server that is very protective of our minority members and bigotry of any variety will be squashed with great prejudice.

We have several alternative lemmy frontends you can use. Just login with your regular blahaj login details.

We have a public matrix channel for all Blahaj users at #blahaj:chat.blahaj.zone

We also have a matrix channel for gender diverse folk and our allies! If you’re already a matrix user, you can head straight to our application room https://matrix.to/#/#gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone, or by searching for #gv-apply:chat.blahaj.zone from within your matrix client.

If you’re new to matrix, you can find some more details and an instruction video on how to get up and running here https://chat.blahaj.zone/c/genderverse/

Community Guidelines

Blåhaj Lemmy is a space where everyone should feel able to participate safely, and to that end, our community is built on the guiding philosophies of empathy, inclusion and acceptance.

Empathy

We want our community members to be guided by compassion and empathy for others.

Examples of behaviour that are contrary to this philosophy are personal attacks, insults, doxing etc. If your comment is designed to hurt someone, this isn’t the space for it.

Inclusion and Acceptance

Embracing inclusion and acceptance means listening when people tell you who they are and what their needs are. It means not telling people that you know their experiences better than they do. It means not gatekeeping experiences of identities of others. It means no bigotry such as racism, sexism, anti LGBT commentary, ableism etc. It means doing your best to ensure that you don’t over-talk the voices of folk who don’t share your privileges.

Supporting Blåhaj Lemmy

After much hesitation, we have a Ko Fi to enable people to help with supporting some of the running costs associated with our instances.

Providing a safe space for our community is the goal, so please only consider donating if you are in a position to do so without any financial stress.

Mascot and logo

Find out about our mascot Shonky (they/them) who appears on our site logo here.

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