• Crashdoom (he/him)@pawb.social
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    6 months ago

    My pronouns are He / Him, I apologize, I don’t typically use Lemmy except for moderation actions or watching subs that I follow, I’ve updated my profile to add them as you’re right, it’s incredibly useful for normalizing the use of pronouns and I proudly do so at work, on Telegram, and Discord, but forgot to here.

    I didn’t want to approach it except for raising the concern because I’m unsure and unaware, but I have had to address poor and toxic interactions with other Hexbear users outside of the community you mentioned. I don’t want to gatekeep anyone from any communities, but I don’t want to see people end up getting harassed as a result of negative interactions that seem to be readily apparent in other areas of Hexbear. I’m happy and hope to be wrong and that the community there you mentioned is safe, but I don’t know, so have caution and want to present that.

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      6 months ago

      Are you cis? And yes, they are safe and have done more things for trans people than you will ever do, and this concern trolling is ridiculous.

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          6 months ago

          We can continue this conversation in DMs if you wish but your ‘concerns’ are not welcome here and contribute to an atmosphere of hostility towards trans communities on the fediverse.

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      6 months ago

      I also reached out to one of the admins for lemmy.blahaj.zone to make sure I didn’t misrepresent their stance / view on Hexbear since I did mention them as well as other groups in my original comment. I don’t want to fearmonger, I just don’t want anyone to get hurt.