• growsomethinggood ()@reddthat.com
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    6 months ago

    Why are trans people’s feelings less important than feelings of people making jokes online?

    I don’t want to be arguing here either, that’s why I’m politely letting folks know that these sort of jokes may alienate their allies. You don’t have to do anything with that information if you don’t want to! Don’t engage with this at all, and feel free to let me know what material good you’ve done to fight for trans rights in the time saved, will you?

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      6 months ago

      They are not just jokes. People posting these things are doing so specifically to antagonise the right.

      I’m telling you that your concern trolling is alienating allies.

      I have chosen to engage in this just like you chose to deal with the blowback when you posted it.

      All I have done to “fight for trans rights” is to speak out when I can, challenge bigotry as I am challenging you right now, stand up and be counted at queer marches/events and raise a daughter who took the only trans kid in her high school to prom.

      You don’t know my life and that isn’t the discussion. Stop deflecting and learn to focus on intent.

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        6 months ago

        I don’t put much stock in voting, but I don’t think a majority popular comment that the person I was replying to already agreed with is, uh, getting blowback. Honestly you seem to be the most hostile one here. If you’d read any of the lovely conversations I’ve already had with folks here, you’d understand that I haven’t blamed anyone for this joke, I am simply communicating what I have heard in the community, and I don’t have any expectations of changes in behavior as a result of this.

        It’s not bigotry to call out jokes on the internet, btw. For someone fighting a war on behalf of us all I’d figure this would be lower priority!

        I’m going to stop responding to you since you don’t seem to be engaging with the intention to actually listen to minorities, ciao!