Hi everybody! My schedule has been really unforgiving, so I may or may not end up writing something and making changes to the post later in the week.
Regardless, I hope you all have a good week!
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I remember years ago after a breakup, I got into lesbian erotica but forced myself to stop reading it after a couple months because I felt guilty, like I was invading some space that wasn’t meant for me, even though I was just reading it alone, not even interacting with other people who read or write it
a few years after that, I was told that (most) women are turned off by feminine guys, which I don’t think most cis guys have to be told at all? and also cis guys would react to learning that by trying to become more masculine, but instead it just made me really depressed and blackpilled about dating