Nobody ever says this about mediocre white women, or any POC of any gender
Seems to me that these people want to date people of high social status/privilege in society - and due to mediocre white men’s complete lack of any highly positive qualities - by virtue of being “mediocre” - can more easily be stripped back to only being viewed as white and a man as the sole standing “positive qualities”, making them a more pure symbol of status/privilege
Counterpoint, what’s wrong with a person being mediocre? What makes someone “great” or “positive”. I think you’re right about it’s weird wanting someone that they’re not attracted to just because they’re white and male, specifically I think you’re right it’s a shitty status thing due to society, but people should be allowed to be mediocre in society
That is defined by each individual person. But some person by their own admission say they want “mediocre” white men 🤷🏼♀️, whatever that means to them. But surely by definition of the word it implies they want people without highly positive qualities or else they wouldn’t be “mediocre” in their eyes
I never said it was wrong to be mediocre, that is neither a statement I made nor a topic I tried to bring up for discussion