This is a photo on my (f28)Instagram. My brother in law (m42) reacted to it in DM, and said the above. I feel I replied normally, but now my sister (f39) apparently saw the message and is saying that I engaged in hot discussions with her man! I am myself married and I feel so bad now. I told my husband who said I did nothing wrong. Any idea how I could approach my sister ?
I can’t help with approaching your sister, but you very obviously did nothing wrong. It’s not even approaching inappropriate from your end. From what I’ve seen, it’s pretty common for someone in your sisters situation to try and put the blame on you instead of her husband. I don’t know why.