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  • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    6·
    4 days ago

    [Sincere] Can you explain how? We’ve a lot of trauma from prople saying this and then acting counter to it, so an explanation would genuinely be helpful to us.

    If you’d like to, no worries if not.

    • BeckylandOfficial@kbin.earthOP
      6·
      4 days ago

      Oh, I’m so sorry 🫂

      I care about your well-being, I’ll listen to your comments, and I’ll try to be there for you. I won’t say always but I can try to consistently be there often. This is a kindness community where people are kind to others.

          • Of the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
            4·
            3 days ago

            So to be honest, pretty upset and angry. Those we live with that think of themselves as our family have been nothing but abusive since we returned back to them from elsewhere.

            Yesterday they tried to shut us down merely for trying to counter their indoctrination of a child that lives here into believing cops are good.

            We have been left without a bathroom because of unforseen circumstances, and one of them messed up our network setup and refused to fix it so we have had to run a long cable between the rooms (which works better than the previous setup anyway).

            Now it is father’s day here and we’re done with their awfulness but they are going to expect praise or a card or something else they will become even more abusive, but we refuse this time. They have stoked our final ire on the fire that we carry within us.

            They don’t get to treat us this way for years, hating everything we are and trying to shape and control us into what they want us to be and expect to get away with it. Ever since we started showing thinking for ourselves and gaining our own personality they haven’t let up, from since we were quite small too.

            There is no connection there and we are tired of pretending there is. They don’t get to do that kind of thing to us any more.