i wanted to ask here because maybe you could help me figure it out even if i’m the only one who would truly know.

not detailed sexual mentions(???)

i can feel horny. i can definitely occasionally masturbate and be in the mood for it, but to a specific person? no.

no one really gives me a sexual feeling when i see them. I feel very romantic with my fiancé, but I don’t really feel that sexual towards him, he never makes me feel horny or wet. no one really has. sometimes, the idea of women might, but not that much and not men at all.

  • TheHotze@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    3 days ago

    You can be asexual and still have a libedo. You can be asexual and still feel romantic attraction. You can be asexual and masturbate. You can even be asexual and have sex. All asexuallity is about is attraction, which from what you say, you feel little or none of. Which is the definition of asexual or ace spectrum. However, at the end of the day, it’s just a label. One you can choose to use or not use. (Also, like the other person said about aegosexuality, you could look into ace spec identities. )