Ended up filing a complaint against this therapist I saw. He let baseless, irrelevant, and unprofessional bias prevent me from getting care that is absolutely essential to my well-being as a queer person. What grosses me out is that this was specifically at a clinic that claims to specialize in LGBTQ+ care. I hope something comes of this, but meh, these formal processes are rarely ever actually just. I scheduled with a new therapist at an organization that is queer and POC led (this other therapist who rejected my care is extremely ), and they were able to give me a free consultation. I expect them to be better in the long run.