So, I was going out to the Night Clubs in the late 70’s. I am 5’4”, very thin, but have a large “chest”. It’s super busy, and servers can’t keep up. So I head to the bar, as many people did. Standing in line, the guy behind me starts hustling me. I’m justing trying to be polite. Then he starts being aggressive, and I’m trying to get myself out of this situation. His Friend sees what’s going on and says. “Jesus, Mark, just leave her alone”. He says: “It’s not my fault she has big tits”.
Also a large chested 5’5" woman here, this does not surprise me at all. The only way I found peace was cutting my hair really short and going for a more androgynous look. Now people think I’m a teenage boy and leave me the hell alone.
Yeah. Weirdly chest fat is not a huge gender indicator for a lot of people unless it’s called attention to. I’ve known several trans guys with big chests who pass just fine.
The biggest indicators imo are hair: haircut, facial hair, and body hair; then voice, then height, and maybe chest/hips/muscles somewhere after that. With a hoodie most people don’t even notice.
So, I was going out to the Night Clubs in the late 70’s. I am 5’4”, very thin, but have a large “chest”. It’s super busy, and servers can’t keep up. So I head to the bar, as many people did. Standing in line, the guy behind me starts hustling me. I’m justing trying to be polite. Then he starts being aggressive, and I’m trying to get myself out of this situation. His Friend sees what’s going on and says. “Jesus, Mark, just leave her alone”. He says: “It’s not my fault she has big tits”.
Also a large chested 5’5" woman here, this does not surprise me at all. The only way I found peace was cutting my hair really short and going for a more androgynous look. Now people think I’m a teenage boy and leave me the hell alone.
With a large chest?
Baggy T-shirts, layers and hoodies do a good job of hiding the girls. Unless they’re paying attention it’s not hard to miss.
Yeah. Weirdly chest fat is not a huge gender indicator for a lot of people unless it’s called attention to. I’ve known several trans guys with big chests who pass just fine.
The biggest indicators imo are hair: haircut, facial hair, and body hair; then voice, then height, and maybe chest/hips/muscles somewhere after that. With a hoodie most people don’t even notice.
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