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ComradeLuz [none/use name]@hexbear.net to askchapo@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 years ago

What would you say the reason is for those guys who cant get a date for the life of them?

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What would you say the reason is for those guys who cant get a date for the life of them?

ComradeLuz [none/use name]@hexbear.net to askchapo@hexbear.netEnglish · 2 years ago
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    I don’t think you have to be particularly attractive to use dating apps. Like, I’m sure it helps, but I honestly think it’s a skill issue for the most part. Like, on dating apps, a huuuuge amount of people’s profiles have like three mediocre pics, and none of the info filled in, no bio, etc. That’s just an auto swipe left. Even worse are the profiles where the bio is an active turn off. Like people whose bio is just like a misogynistic skreed. And those people, I assume, are ones who are the most vocal about dating apps not working for them.

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        I wonder if there’s tinder consultants out there that help you take good photos, write a good bio etc. Could probably make some good coin that way

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            You got a spare 10 grand lol

            https://nypost.com/2021/09/20/this-nyc-online-dating-coach-costs-10000-heres-what-you-get/

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                People are wild. Honestly though a couple hundred bucks for professional photos and having a friend proofread a profile would likely go a long way.

                I’m so glad I don’t have to deal with these hell apps

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        I’m bald in in my undergrad in my 30s. Don’t be too hard on yourself.

        If you decide nobody is gonna go for you then delete the app, then yeah, not gonna work

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