I have like a lot of comments with some fucked-up family stuff like: “Oh yea btw my mom said she want a 3rd child because she’s disappointed in her first 2 children” and then I feel like I’m trauma-dumping too much lol
Easy for me to do that kind of thing as well. Like, to me, there’s just kinda funny stories, but perhaps others don’t see it that way. OTOH, I have a hard time asking people I’m not really comfortable with basic small-talk questions sometimes because it feels like prying. Like, I don’t mind dropping something like “I found out recently that the person who birthed us traded us for a blanket once*” but I might feel weird asking how people’s holidays were.
I have like a lot of comments with some fucked-up family stuff like: “Oh yea btw my mom said she want a 3rd child because she’s disappointed in her first 2 children” and then I feel like I’m trauma-dumping too much lol
Easy for me to do that kind of thing as well. Like, to me, there’s just kinda funny stories, but perhaps others don’t see it that way. OTOH, I have a hard time asking people I’m not really comfortable with basic small-talk questions sometimes because it feels like prying. Like, I don’t mind dropping something like “I found out recently that the person who birthed us traded us for a blanket once*” but I might feel weird asking how people’s holidays were.
*its not anywhere near as bad as it sounds