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Feminine Boys@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 2 years ago

Why is nobody using the term TomGirl ?

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It’s mostly because they prefer the term that reaffirms their male identities, the term Tomgirl doesn’t really, it implies that they are actually girls which for most femboys isn’t true.

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