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Cake day: July 1st, 2023

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  • Is that a real photo of his knuckles? I mean, the MS13 is clearly added on and likely a “decoded” read of the pot leaf, smiley face, cross, and skull tattoos that are clearly in the knuckles (very dubious on that symbolism) but are this even Kilmer’s actual knuckles? Or just a random photo of someone else?

    Edit: yes, those are his knuckles as you can see pictures of him talking to that senator.

    I strongly doubt, based on a quick search, that those are in any way related to a gang. They are evidence of drug culture (gasp!) but I’ve yet to see any evidence that any gang uses those.

    Edit 2: it appears MS13 members literally just get tattoos that say “MS13” and don’t attempt to hide it. It’s a proof of loyalty thing, apparently.









  • I would guess that if you have any metric data, you could see how many visitors vs comments/posts you have, and then work on engagement. Post more open ended things to try to get people to want to post.

    Otherwise, a sure bet is to get the word out about your community and try to bring more people in. Which means telling people who aren’t on you server to come join it. Probably Reddit and maybe a website/post that’s going to get search indexed at some point that leads people here.


  • I wish there was more. Nothing I’ve done seems very effective. Being in Oklahoma, that’s how I’ve felt my whole life. Anyone I vote for loses. Any time I protest, it happens anyway. Any time I volunteer, it’s too small.

    My friends and I have recently started a small support group to share survival skills, gardening, canning, and basic marksmanship to recently threatened, marginalized, and like minded people but that doesn’t fix the overall problem. I’ve taught a lot, learned a lot, but I just don’t see it getting better.

    I feel powerless, and I guess that’s the intent.








  • I learned to fix it. Before YouTube, that usually means not so great. But now, I usually do at least as good as a job as the people I’d hire.

    Fixing stuff is easy, and you have to accept that there’s no perfect fix.

    Ants, set out ant bait traps. Look outside and see if there’s a trail, follow it to the source, and spray it with ant poison.

    Cracks, YouTube that. They may be nothing.

    Leaks, if it’s plumbing, you can buy pipes at home Depot and replace them.

    Granted, it will take a while. Maybe all day. But you’ll get an endorphin rush when it’s done and eventually you’ll come to know all the ins and outs of your house.

    But it’s you look at it and it’s too big, Google a company to do it. Even if you’re halfway, and find you’re stuck. No shame in getting help. This shines you don’t have a family member or friend who’s already handy.

    But really, if you can’t fix it, can’t afford to have it fixed, just do what you can to keep the house clean and work on it a little bit or put aside money till you can. That’s hard, but that’s owning a house. Like anything in life, it’s difficult. But it doesn’t have to stay that way, with enough time and practice.

    You’re already smarter than many, asking for other’s opinions. Don’t suffer in silence. I believe in you!