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4 days agoDated my landlady who was 30 years my senior. Pros:
- She’s pretty cool with anything, having married/divorce with 2 kids shes pretty much lived her life. She was willing to try just about anything and I was allowed to date outside our relationship as well. I reckon she was just in it for the fun (sexual).
- She’s financially stable, has a career and money so she doesn’t bitch about finances. She always covered the bill on our dates and even paid on my behalf for overseas trips together.
- She has a life outside our relationship, so she’ll be going around for business trips and meeting clients. So she doesn’t have time to be clingy, giving me some ME time every coupl’a weeks. And I do appreciate my alone time.
- Sexually very experience, she knows what she wants and easily takes control. I view that as a pro
Cons:
- She treats you like a kid (which you are). She may cut in sometimes and advise you on what is “in your best interests”. I for one am not into people telling me what to do
- Everybody mistakes her for my mom and because of the society we live in, it’s difficult to tell them we’re not related.
- She pretty much calls the shots in everything, from where to go to what to eat. Since she knows shes paying for it anyway.


When we were together I literally stayed rent free. I even stayed at her place from time to time.