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Cake day: November 2nd, 2023

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  • Also if you dont have kids then you shouldnt be discussing this. Do you know how strong the parental instinct is?

    This is just useless gatekeeping. You don’t have to be a parent to have a perspective on how people should be raised. Every adult was a child at some point, so everyone has an experience to relate about how they were raised and the flaws they see in different approaches from their direct experience. Parents aren’t the only party involved. Not only does it take a village to raise kids, but other people are ultimately affected by parental decisions (e.g. Jennifer and James Crumbley).




  • The #MeToo movement is a largely social movement. Most of the consequences for exposed abusers was social, which led to public shaming and loss of job opportunities. There were legal consequences for some, though victims advocates would like to have seen much more. The few legal influences that came from the movement were laudable. Some states banned nondisclosure agreements and arbitration clauses relating to sexual harassment and now there’s the Speak Out Act at the federal level.

    But by and large, the social consequences that were the primary result weren’t powerful enough to change the longstanding cultural issues such as toxic masculinity, incel subculture, patriarchal traditionalism, male chauvinism, etc. which contribute to the issues that the movement sought to name and shame. Social consequences can lead to diminishing returns if those who oppose change double down and re-entrench in the problematic cultures. They turn accusations into merit badges and proof that they haven’t bought into “woke” (or whatever toxic buzzword will come to replace it when woke isn’t a powerful boogeyman word anymore) culture.

    Greater legal support for victims and greater legal consequences for perpetrators would be preferable, but the current legislative climate would make that difficult to progress except in some states.










  • I’d recommend disconnecting the concept of organized religion from faith in your mind. Determine if you actually believe in a god separate from whether you think a particular hierarchical organized religion is the best representation for that god on earth. Leave the church if it doesn’t work for you. Find something that does work for you.


  • You’re moving the goal posts and using a no true Scotsman now. First it was nobody, now it’s some, but it’s not common.

    Your point isn’t even really relevant to the discussion. The point was that you’re using right wing terminology and framing and pretending it’s normal, which is what you admit right wingers do. “Far left agenda” isn’t a term that an educated or knowledgeable analyst would even remotely pretend is applicable to the content of the mainstream media.

    It seems like you identify as a centrist but you speak from a right wing perspective and don’t seem to know what left wing even means. The liberals you probably talk to for context are centrists, not leftists.



  • My point is that what you’re calling far left isn’t far or even left. You’re applying an Overton window dominated by right wing perspectives. It’s not left when NBC interviews someone from Planned Parenthood or talks about equitable housing initiatives. It’s definitely not left when mainstream news organizations use soft language to describe corruption and crimes committed by Republicans. Right wingers love to use CNN as an example of “far left” media, when it’s far closer to Newsmax than to the Daily Worker. Corporate media can’t be leftist by its very nature.

    And I have spoken to plenty of people on the right that call themselves far right. They just prefer their dog whistles and euphemisms in official publications such as “Patriot” or “Real American.”


  • You use terms only right wing news sites use, such as “far left.” The “far left” in the US is limited to smaller, unrepresented people, for example: anarchist groups in places like Portland and Seattle. The mainstream media is corporate and capitalist. It can’t push “far left” perspectives because it has none. It pushes at best centrist ideas like “women should have some amount of say in their health care,” but they’re even milquetoast about that. “Far left” is black bloc protesters milkshaking Andy Ngo. Let me know when the mainstream media endorses that.