JohnBrownsBussy2 [she/her, they/them]
Sequel to JohnBrownsBussy
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5·7 hours ago
It has been 15 minutes since I made this post, and while nothing is set in stone, I have failed to resist the sapphic urge to move in after one date.
Not actually moving in after one date, but they are keeping a roommate slot open for me in their new place in case we make that decision.
Resisting the sapphic urge to move in after one date.
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You’re right. Achieving orgasm is tough for me while masturbating now, but I expected it to be easier with a partner so I was kinda blindsided. Still, as I have some distance, the negative feelings I felt are fading, while all the fun and good stuff remain as strong and happy memories.
There is one thing that I definitely want to improve on for next time.
sex
The sex was fun and hot, but neither of us achieved orgasm. That made me feel bad/guilty for a while, but they reassured me that they had a good time and we’re talking about what we want to do differently to make that easier.
It’s been a few days and I am still processing it, but I enjoyed it so it’s nice to dwell on.
We had been chatting and flirting for weeks, and already had a video date. They were super kind and considerate at every step, but also took initiative while staying within my boundaries. It was a lovely time.
Date this weekend has a lot of firsts:
- First real date.
- First kiss.
- First make out session.
- First cuddle session.
NSFW
- First partnered sex.
- First sleeping in a bed with a sex partner.
Next time they’re spending a weekend at my place.
Archetypes are: punk/goth/scene, chill tomboy, depressed& dysphoric (on occasion), and power mommy.
The Trump election did the same for me in getting my transition into gear.
I’ve had a couple of short (1-2 hr) coffee or video dates, but this time I’m taking the whole afternoon/evening/night.
Preparing for my first real date today (as well as potentially a lot of other firsts) please send me your energy/support, as I am super excited but also really nervous.
Yeah. And the purple is metallic for the accent.
Different colors on different nails. I am not good enough to do that precise nail art.
Bi pride nail polish acquired and applied.
Date tonight has to be rescheduled due to my date being under the weather. Was really looking forward to it, but also feeling a bit of relief since I have also been really tired this week and I have a lot to do at work today. I still have a busy weekend with two other dates, so not going to be lacking. I’d like to say that I’m never going to overstack my schedule like this again, but that would be a lie.
Scheduling is hell. Abolish time.
I should also look for pan and enby pride colors, but this girl only has 2 hands.
I’ve had so much trouble shopping for this specific nail polish since a lot of shades are either exclusive to a specific retailer or sold out from my local stores. However, finally found the shades I need to complete both trans pride and bi pride colors.
