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I’m a 30-something IT enby living in the middle ass nowhere

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Cake day: June 8th, 2025

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  • Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zoneto196@lemmy.blahaj.zone10 hour rule
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    5 days ago

    wanna personally add: audio media

    I used to constantly listen to something: podcasts, audiobooks, youtube, never alone with my thoughts. After a while I noticed I couldn’t explain my mood shifts anymore, simply cause I wouldn’t have time to think through what’s going on in my own head.

    I still love all that shit, but try to carve out some regular “alone time” to keep up.



  • Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zonetoHistory Memes@lemmy.worldbig
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    6 days ago

    Modern art: the most random weird ass thing you’ve ever seen, I love it.

    Here’s an old TV set from the 60s, it plays a black and white loop of a man in a suit sitting on a chair and laughing. Don’t know what the fuck it means but it fascinated me for good 5 minutes, until I was distracted by a clay figurine of Bavarian men mooning me.





  • Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zonetoFemcel Memes@lemmy.blahaj.zonetitle
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    8 days ago

    yeee I knoow, but in my corner of the world 90% of non-terminally online population will have a “ew, pervert” reaction to any queerness. Half of them will change their mind to “I guess its not bad” after you talk to them for a while, but this shit is tiring yo. Local gay scene is also very opinionated about how I don’t fit there.

    obviously painting with a wide brush there’s plenty of cool people, just not raring to meet the non-cool ones


  • Maxxie@piefed.blahaj.zonetoJust Post@lemmy.worldWhat could go wrong?
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    8 days ago

    As much of a basic and needy bitch that I am, for the life of me can’t imagine falling for chatbot. Like, there’s nothing there? It just sycophantically goes with whatever you say.

    Characters from an average cheesy romance novel are more lovable. At least they have personalities, human quirks, dreams and desires that don’t disappear whenever you start a new conversation.

    admittedly I’m not in a decade-old loveless marriage with a person who has no respect for me, that probably changes things.


  • Me in my mid 30s struggling with loneliness, drifting away from old friends because half of them have children and the others are bigoted assholes I’m tired tolerating, dreading to try conventional dating methods because surely all the normies will see me as a weirdo instead of a human being:

    eh, will fix it next year :3



  • It would upset me, but holy crap what a topic for the first half an hour of the date. Will get you right through the awkward phase!

    “So, wild story, my dad set this date. Can you believe this crap? I have no idea what he put in my profile, hopefully nothing too cringe… He wrote I love trains??? FFS you make ONE model train when you’re 12, and you’re a ‘train girl’ forever. Honestly I almost no-show, but you didn’t deserve being stood up… Anyway, wanna vent about stupid shit your parents did?”