Thanks, It’s my favorite!
Nissa
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Thank you for sharing, you have come to the right place! Skirts and dresses definitely feel more exposed than pants for sure. You are so used to that extra fabric right up against your back side. Now the air can freely flow, it almost feels like you’re naked. There is definitely a learning curve to it, and if you like the way you look you’ll get used to it.
I felt the same way when I donned my first skirt, but as soon as I looked in the mirror I stopped caring. Now it’s all about not accidentally flashing people (just my wife for now but still). Learning to fold my skirt underneath me when sitting was step one. Learning to bend at the knees, legs together, back straight was step two. If there’s a step three, I haven’t learned it yet.
That being said, you don’t have to wear skirts or dresses to be feminine. There are tons of options, what’s right for me doesn’t have to be what’s right for you. My wife is a horse girl, all jeans or sweats, tee shirts, hoodies. Doesn’t like jewelry, doesn’t do makeup. I’m the girly one in our relationship and that’s fine. Do what makes you happy, your happiness is all that matters.
Feel free to drop by anytime. We will be here, excited to hear how things are going and to answer any questions you may have!
Linkies!
Zando 6 Pairs Striped Thigh High… https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DBHVXQ94
ROSE GAL Womens Plus Size Curve… https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DKNVFD7P
Urban CoCo Women’s Basic… https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08P8KRZ59
I can definitely live with that
Thank you! It makes me feel really cute.
Yeeaaaa, I’m no good with pain. I think I’ll stick with shaving and eventually get laser hair removal.
Thanks! I have a serious love hate thing with the laces. I love the look but hate lacing them up, it’s so hard to get them perfect lol
Nooooo… rushes to put back socks lol
Thanks, I feel pretty great about it myself!
Thank you, I really appreciate that!
My socks may make me look like a programmer, but I assure you I’m an electrician. Thank you!
Thanks, I think I will lol
It’s definitely my favorite top at the moment. It’s good to hear that they can get better with time. I definitely have a few things I’m not 100% sold on but I love them enough that I can’t get rid of them till I can really feel good in them.
Thank you! I got the top from amazon, I rely on it too much but they make returning stuff that doesn’t fit too damn easy.
She is very understanding and supportive and has done her best to accommodate my needs and express her feelings. We have agreed on girlmoding 2 to 3 times a week unless I need to be Nissa or the wife needs me to be Lewis. Along with open and honest communication we are doing our best. This is obviously still very new but luckily we love each other enough to work through anything and try to be a better person for the other everyday.
Wow, you know soooo much. Thanks for the info, I really appreciate it. You have definitely given me some things to think about
You look absolutely gorgeous!
This was a great read and I really needed it right now. I’m a brick and that’s okay, I’m beautiful in my own way. I’ll find a lipstick that compliments my mustache!
Yes! Happiness is contagious and compounding. Every time someone shares here, it makes me happy and encourages me to share too.
That sucks! I don’t want to make you write it again but sure would have liked to read it.





Thanks I appreciate it!
Give it time, you’ll feel comfortable enough soon enough, and we’ll be here when you are!