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  • Remy@lemmy.todayOPtoADHD@lemmy.worldI can't stop when its time to stop
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    10 days ago

    When I can’t get off my phone, I switch the display from colour to greyscale, and about 15 minutes later it’s much easier to put the device down. NB make a shortcut so that it’s easy to change the colours without leaving the app you’re in.

    I enabled this has an automated feature, but most of the time, I turn it off manually without thinking much about it

    If an alarm is really important, I put the alarm clock on the other side of the room. Close enough that I can’t ignore it but far enough that I have to stand up and walk over to switch it off.

    This could work if I put the alarm in a difficult to reach position, so I realy need to stop the current thing to reach it, and then it may be easier to start the next thing?

    I combine activities to keep my brain sufficiently stimulated e.g. listen to a podcast or music while doing something repetitive. So when task switching, my 1st step is fun, deciding what I want to listen to.

    I think listening to music could be a good task switcher, especially if the music is motivating

    I try to avoid digital content that I identify as being addictive or very difficult to break out of. Natasha Dow Schüll defines what she calls the “ludic loop”, which is an activity that is solitary, doesn’t include natural breaks, doesn’t have a definite end, and has random rewards.

    This definition seems to match on almost all digital activities?





  • Disobeying my own schedules and reminders is one of things that I disrespect my self the most for, but I just can’t really figure out how to make my self obey the reminders.

    I wish I was one of these people that have a relation to their reminders like the reminder is some military sergeant and you do what it says, without resisting the authority.


  • You mean like a transitioning ritual? If the transitional ritual is

    • Limited in time (so that it can’t just be the next activity I don’t stop) -Is always available
    • Has high dopamine so I can get me to do it, then I think this could be good helper But I first need to find such a ritual that works for me 🤔