Thanks, I wonder how many people bothered to look the sequence up :)

That’s an extremely amusing coincidence; if you have a Bsky account, I’d sure she’d be thrilled to hear that you’re a fan of hers as well, and probably answer that question if you asked

Glad you enjoy it! I should try posting more in this community ^^‘’’

Despite what the internet would lead you to believe, body type is not directly correlated to being dominant or submissive. Neither does gender, sexual orientation, clothing or anything else on the surface. The type of person you are sexually, your preferences, your kinks, are only going to come out when you sit down and talk to your partner - or viewers - about it. Otherwise, its just folks making assumptions - and generally forcing standard hetero-normative gender roles into non-standard relationships or people. A big, bulky, tough guy can easily be submissive in bed, just as a soft-spoken, short man can be a cold dom. And the idea of a bottom dom would make some dude’s brains explode. At the end, its about personality, not looks.

So the answer is, unfortunately, this isn’t something that can be “fixed” because its not a personal problem. Its just people having an uneducated perspective of how sexual relations work.

Awfully specific request, would something like Beauty and the Beast Girl be adequate? Its closer to monster girl than eldritch, but if you want one that lives as a human, I imagine it fits regardless.

I was going to recommend this but its far from “wholesome”

takes twice as long to build those up! 💪

If you mean having a place where you can post it, I’ve been running !yaoi@lemmynsfw.com for a little while, although I don’t post that many bears and muscular men since I don’t follow a lot of artists that create that type of porn.

If you mean having people to post it, well, that’s a different matter, I guess. Anyone can contribute, most people just choose not to.

I’m not the artist, source is on the post

oh, this is REALLY good, really has that 90s anime look

Ah, I see. A lot of these are very specific but I’ll subscribe to Imaginary and Imaginary Fairies, thank you for the suggestions.

Are there more of these centered about sharing art made by others? Something like https://reddthat.com/c/wholesomeyuri and https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/c/imaginarywitches

There are already communities for all that kind of content. Creating one more would just increase the bloat. We don’t need to change existing spaces into something else, just concentrate users and have a way of guiding new people into existing communities, to avoid even more duplicates.

I also don’t see the point on promoting people to mods, or why that would make anyone want to stick around. The average user already doesn’t want the responsibility of uploading content, why add the responsibility of moderating content on top of that? Not only that, but there’s nothing correlating mods to helping a community grow. What matters in that is people interested in contributing.

Its pretty sad to have an alt dedicated just to repeating this

I just don’t think there’s enough active userbase for that, and it really isn’t something you can fix on the fly. The ratio of Like/Upvote > Share > Comment > Post is always an issue for online social spaces, its just that a few website got big enough to make it seem like its easy to get people to contribute.

The architecture of Lemmy is also a little bothersome at times, especially when it comes to displaying media and making gallery posts.

Probably one thing I’d like for LemmyNSFW to have is a Admin owned community for people to share communities and talk about merging, managing, sharing, etc. Something like https://lemmy.world/c/newcommunities but for our side of the pond, and now just for new but also talking about present communities and what can be done for them.

Average elf when faced with the bare minimum physical obstruction

they stopped themselves from being literally The Onion just in time

I don’t use Rule34 due to how they’re against using any trans-positive tag, but there aren’t really many options available. e621 isn’t much better, but at the very least it’ll respect a DNP from artists that ask for it.

Shame because I’d happily contribute to an image gallery that isn’t run by people who are still stuck in the early 2000s anime fan mentality.

Sadly, Shexyo is a known tracer and now AI user

Its this, really. Well put. Unfortunately we still live in a world where having a penis means you’re in charge, and being penetrated means you’re inferior. The lack of a penis or being fucked defaults, to a lot of people, to being weak and submissive. It doesn’t help that so many have the - wrong - idea that top = dom and bottom = sub.

I’ve talked to folks a few times about this, and how the notion of a bottom being the dominant partner and getting penetrated, would blow so many guys’ minds, if they can even understand the scenario to begin with.