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  • This is honestly a big part of why I avoid most fandom stuff.

    It’s largely sex and relationship stuff, and I’m not interested in either of those aspects of the media I like. It’s mostly tolerable in the original media as long as it’s not egregious, but it can be a massive turnoff if it’s overdone or overemphasized. Even worse when the few characters one can relate to are, well, made unrelatable…

    And the actual creators are bad enough about doing this; they do the same thing with most strong female characters who either explicitly or implicitly don’t want relationships or kids, only to end up falling in love or pregnant in season 3… It’s frustrating to have the rug pulled so often…




  • SolarMonkey@slrpnk.nettoFunny@sh.itjust.worksFair
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    2 days ago

    They probably know.

    However, college students (at least in the US) usually don’t know how to handle being intoxicated. This being the first time they are allowed and all.

    That’s why the dorm popcorn alarm (aka fire alarm) goes off in the middle of the night, not early evening when people would be watching movies and such.


  • I had a conversation with someone the other day about getting a used EV. I want one (tho the spy-on-wheels aspect isn’t something I’m fond of), and specifically I want a used one because they are stupid cheap.

    I’m convinced that people are actively trying to talk themselves out of getting one rather than doing even the basic look into the whole thing…

    Person I was talking to was like “yeah but if the batteries go you’d be spending $28k to replace them!”

    Dumbfuck, I’m not going to spend more than 10k on this used EV, which is only a few grand more than my current car is supposedly worth (which I’ll easily save in gas in just a few years)… I’m not going to replace the batteries if it’s expensive. I’d replace the car with another cheap used one, and trade in the busted battery one.

    That’s to say nothing of the fact that If the battery goes within roughly a decade from manufacture, probs under warranty, and if not, well my ICE vehicle wouldn’t be worth shit for trade-in if the engine cracked or something, so what’s the difference?




  • SolarMonkey@slrpnk.nettoFediverse@lemmy.worldI'm doing my part
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    5 days ago

    I don’t really think there’s anything that can be done other than policing your own and letting the platform grow.

    It’s a whole vibe thing, not just obvious stuff.

    For example, whenever there were questions aimed at women (hey ladies, what’s your hair routine? Sort of thing), it’s nothing but a bunch of men spouting off about what their wives or girlfriends do, and maybe a few actual women, but their comments always ended up buried. Nobody actually wants that “the woman in my life does this, I think…” sort of input at all, except other men (which unfortunately is the vast majority of the platform, so those “as a man” comments get heavily upvoted, even when they are obviously full of complete shit). It drowns out the few female voices that actually are around. And if you correct some dude in a post for women voices, about something men typically know nothing about, you’ll get heavily downvoted for it. Not at all welcoming.

    I know we have some strong transfem comms, and I’m all for it because all women are women, but the experience of those women is wildly different from cis women, and a lot of the memes and stuff coming from those comms are sort of… cis-excluding and often very off-putting. Which is sort of the only fem representation on here.

    It’s just not friendly for women. And so so many things need to change before it really is.


  • Which is wild considering the spice trades of the… (according to the internet, prehistory through modernity, so that’s a thing…)

    I have to assume that 1950s housewives were so thoroughly drugged up that they couldn’t tell the difference…

    I know that they made everything in jello/aspic because gelatin was formerly a luxury, like sugar and basically any spices, so they went a bit batshit when they got cheap access…





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    5 days ago

    I only mention Lemmy as a caution, like what to avoid, while I’m mentioning other fediverse social media…

    Because I’m a woman and most of the people I know who want social media alternatives are also women, and I’m not subjecting them to this shitshow. I like them too much to bring them here.