I’ve noticed that whenever there’s a group of people together, someone will be the leader, it doesn’t matter who the group are, there will be a leader & everyone will know it.
Now that leader has a choice to be a bully, or someone who tries not to be a leader.
So yes we absolutely need to train our kids what good (inclusive) leadership looks like, so they can either follow those people, or be those people.
Some say the mice are testing us (Douglas Adams)