The cure for loneliness is loving yourself and finding people that matter to you, regardless of your gender.

Devious tricks? I’m just being honest when I affirm you.

I mainly want you with me bc I’m scared too ><

It’s not always like that, but it sometimes does become that. It often is just trans or closeted people memeing on their own behavior with the understanding that those behaviors don’t make them trans. That said, it can be tricky to not overstep bounds or imply the wrong thing. I think it’s a force for good overall, but there are a few things to remember when observing it or participating in it.

1. Do not call other people eggs. It is a term that can describe one’s own journey, but not one that can or should be applied to others. At most, sharing one’s own lived experience as an egg can help others reflect.
2. Sharing the experience of an egg does not mean someone is trans. Cis people can experience these things without wanting to be another gender.

Let’s go then! (ง ื▿ ื)ว

This isn’t an imaginary scenario. FtM femboys and cis femboys do need to deal with these things. I’ve seen it happen for years, and even as an egg who hatched into a transfem, it always made me uncomfortable. It felt like an external force taking away the decision from people and enforcing new norms. It did not help me accept myself in any way, but it did give me more doubts to deal with.

There is no reason to do anything but affirm people’s stated gender. If someone is a trans medicalist gatekeeping other trans people, they are still their stated gender. If they are a troll identifying as an attack helicopter, consistently affirming their facetious identity is a great way to make them lose interest. If you think someone who identifies one way might be better fit by a different identity, an enby who might be binary or vice versa, keep that to yourself. If you somehow do know better than the person, denying will not have actually helped them, but increased the likelihood of them doubling down.

All of that is to say that toxic egg culture is real and harmful. No identity is a terrible fate, only not having your autonomy doubted by the people who should welcome you. People define their own gender, end of story, end of discussion. No good comes of denying identities.

I appreciate that concern, and wondered about it myself. I ultimately decided it could still hold power for eggs, but you’re probably right about the potential harm not being worth it. I’ll remove it

“all lives matter” fuckheads devastated by this one simple truth

tldr: it confused everybody

girl’s locker room:

bes smarter >:3

OK, then it is very gay for us to spoon then! X3

I know! I want those effects in 9 weeks!!! 😫

that “guy” probably knew things weren’t right

sounds like Jordan Peterson except with self awareness

this is true. I always wondered why I never liked taking pictures

well it’s just fax 😘