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  • bcgm3@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.world•Not Our Gains
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    24 hours ago

    like the point is that is should be theirs?

    But the “gains” weren’t really “theirs” either, since they previously belonged to an organism lower in the food chain. It’s the circle of life.

    For the plants part, it’s worth mentioning that it takes more plants for animal products than it does to eat them directly

    I’m not arguing for or against eating anything, I’m saying that no matter what you eat, you’re “getting their gains.”





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    2 days ago

    They stopped being “their” gains when they ceased to live, and became “your” gains when you ate them.

    The same statement is true for plants, too.

    (Saying this as someone who eats very little meat for animal rights reasons, and merely wishes to be padantic right now for some reason)





  • I’m so sorry for what you and your family had to go through. I can empathize with the notion of being completely let down by supposed modern medical practitioners. I’ve lost someone close to me because a doctor (and her staff and associates) did not catch an error in proscribed/administered medication. At the end of the day, these vitally important systems are susceptible to human error, and it costs some people everything. I see and hear you – perhaps only because it happened to me as well; it feels like no one else could ever really know – but I do know what it’s like to feel like the only system available has utterly failed you.

    We are all we have, each of us individually. I hope the best for you and those you hold dear.


  • Wife had a similarly terrible experience, and not that it holds a candle to yours and hers, but it was awful for me, too: Sexual intercourse was a guaranteed needle-stabbing-into-the-tip-of-my-dick situation, every time, and when it was brought up with the OBGYN, she dismissively said I was just “bragging about my size.” I was not. No action was ever taken, right up until I got a vasectomy and she had the IUD removed.

    I’m sorry that you, and she, and so many others have had to endure what you have endured. I think these IUD’s need to go back to the drawing board, and on a larger scale, that there needs to be some major cultural shift to how male contraception is approached. This could be so much easier for everyone, if religion and money would get out of the way of science.