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Cake day: February 13th, 2024

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  • In good faith, that’s how it’d work - but the system has set the bar for removal from office so high as to have never been completed - even by terrible presidents including trump.

    We should change that so that citizens have a more direct way to force an election or vote of no confidence or recall or otherwise remove elected officials that have lost the backing of the people, despite still having the backing of the president’s cabinet and Congress.

    As it stands there is no legitimate path for this action. Should we act illegitimately? To be determined, but we’d all have to get real comfortable that it’d be a textbook unconstitutional coup.


  • We dont live in a democracy we do not live in tyranny. I’d like to live in a true democracy. America is a republic, and that comes with all of its downsides and historical rationale.

    But I get what you’re trying to say, the meme

    I don’t think I think that way, and I have plenty of concerns with parties and establishment. I think the American constitution is fundamentally flawed, and I’ve said that both under Obama and biden as well as, of course trump.


  • We must acknowledge that trump is an elected president, he is not a king, and despite everything we dont like and that which makes me anxious and defensive, the system is working as designed, just no longer in good faith.

    They are executive orders by the president of our republic.

    Are we comfortable that our system can operate this way with bad faith actors? I know I’m not.

    I think justice should catch trump and his enablers, and good faith returned to the system, and then likewise, the system updated to be more resistance and resilient against bad faith actors like trump and the maga movement.

    If we just call trump king, we’ll blind ourselves to the structural problems and likely ignore them once he’s gone, leaving the door open for the next group.



  • I’ve thought about this to, I’m doing quite well financially, not rich, but rich enough where I could buy a humble couple acres in the countryside and do sustenance farming/gardening while following my hobbies and doing small work to sustain myself slowly rather than working my big corporate job and paying a mortgage and running the capitalist treadmill

    I haven’t made the decision yet, but I’m building towards it

    I have a nice, but small, garden in my backyard with a hammock, and I find myself escaping to it whenever I have a spare moment because its one of the very few places I feel calm and happy and meaningful - and eating veggies, herbs, and flowers strait from the garden, from your soil and labor, is something that truly is special and not reproducible at any store or restaurant - no matter how fancy

    I think I’d rather live slowly and simply and humbly with my garden and hobbies, than how I’m living now rushed, complexly, hollowly in the city with my corporate job




  • I need America to not fall to the current fascists literally in power right now, who are making lists of people with genetic traits, who are kidnapping residents and citizens off the streets and putting them in black sites, and who are arresting judges, while they stiffle Congress, supreme courts, and state and city governments.

    I have one enemy who wants to kill me, and another who wears a colored shirt. I know who my enemy is and who I need to protest against.

    I know which plays a larger threat.




  • I don’t have a solution, but its really beautiful to hear your relationship’s clear communication, accepting love, and respect for each others needs.

    Its a tough spot to be in, the solution agreed on may require a sacrifice in the way things are today, but even still, the fact that you can talk and share and love through this is a powerful thing and will lead to a better solution than otherwise.

    So long as you both are listening, respecting, and loving each other it will be OK even if how the relationship is defined today changes.





  • I’ll reflect on this more over time, but right now however the hermit want I think stems from three things:

    1: sometimes I do not want to be observed - I want to be loud and dance silly and be messy or more generically just be in a state that does not match how I want to present myself, and equally I do not want my loudness, silliness, messiness, etc to impact or inconvinence others even if they’re too kind/tolerant to complain

    2: I derive a lot of joy from learning and doing - be that replacing a toilet, raising chickens and eggs, creating a trail, cutting lumber and building a desk etc - and these activities are more complicated as part of a community and requires a level of communication and coordination that is hard for me

    3: I want control to do things the way I think they should be done, and not have to submit to others that have power to overrule me within my dominion - I don’t mind yielding control and power in community spaces so long as I have the option to then exert that lost control within my dominion - say I’d like a koi pond, ideally I can convince the community to work together to make a koi pond, in the event the community does not wish a koi pond, I can create one within my dominion if I’m so inclined - likewise say the community does not want to maintain safe drinking water in a bid to lower community costs, I want the ability to create my own safe drinking water

    Of course ideally all the members of the community, myself included, are aligned in the important things and willing to let accommodate individuality like in my examples - but when they don’t, and I think the reality is that for many things they won’t - is where the hermit cottage is valuable

    I would like to live in a community where it was essentially a main street and a small urban area for the trades and business workers and surrounded by many cottages that support and contribute to those businesses and vice versa

    I feel like I have a lot to offer to my community, and I have contributed in the past to my neighborhood and participate in events and meetings and projects - but still, I cannot play my music very loud, I cannot raise chickens or bees, I cannot go outside and feel alone without traveling for hours to a state forest, I cannot fix the broken street lamp outside my door on the sidewalk despite reporting it 5 months ago, etc

    I’m thinking out loud - and happy for any input you have, and maybe I’m missing something you already know


  • Something I struggle with is exactly this - of knowing that something greater than the sum can be built with a community, and that trusting in a community can lead to things unexpectedly greater than any single unit can make or design on their own - at the same time, I deeply value my independence and wanting to create my own expression and implementation of things outside of the input of others.

    I am complex enough to hold both of those ideas at the same time, but still, I want my multi acre hermit cottage inside of a thriving community and that feels impossible.

    Both a deep want to participate and contribute to the community- and to be independent and have access to solitude

    I don’t know how to connect the two yet, and I don’t want to chose one while forsaking the other.