damnatum_seditiosus [any]

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Cake day: August 3rd, 2020

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  • There is something about infantilising young adults that really irks me up. They have one of the strongest urge to shake things up and enact changes and fight injustices, these people are able to make their mind, make choices and able to own up to them.

    Now for the sleeping with them part, I completely agree on it, there is a power dynamic about sleeping with somebody much younger than you, and also, what do you find attractive with someone where their goals and environment is much different than yours, and I may add, less “experienced” than you? All of that just say abusive to me.

    I had a semi relationship with a much older woman when I was in my early 20s, and now I wonder what was she seeking in that?


  • I don’t see my family often, not that I’ve had issues with them, but we just don’t contact ourselves much? But we’re happy to see each others.

    But I worry for one of my older brother, he was prompt to bursts of “opposition/anger” in the past, but yesterday he was kinda unhinged. He’s a sort of a doomer with some notion of class struggle, but where everyone else is stupid and doesn’t see the big picture. Every interactions we had in the group, he had to interject and give input of some kind where everything is bad and stupid and everything. He doesn’t seem to enjoy himself at all, just some kind of mad.

    He lives with my younger brother and his long lasting SO, but it feels like he’s more and more disconnected.

    We don’t do emotional stuff really good in the family, but I feel like I have to step up and say I’m worried about his current state of things. I’ve always been seen as the one who can reach out to him and somewhat reason with him. But I must admit that I didn’t do to well too with expressing emotional stuff. I’ve been struggling with mental health a lot in the past and tried to seek help quite a few times (it is now being managed pretty well). I feel like it would help him too, somewhat to help him manage his what I feel perpetual anger, but I doubt that he would take others perception well to start such a trip.

    Anyway, I restarted playing online games with him, I’ll try to get a moment to really to him about my worries.

    Even though all of that, I had a good time, I wish you all the same!

    stalin-heart