Oasis. It’s pricy but a good big screen and a grip down one side that makes it easy to hold for long periods. It also feels lighter than the other models. Mines from 2017 and still going strong.

Absolutely. First thing I did when I discovered how to block communities. And I like cats too.

Cross-login would be a good idea though. So in the login box you just put user@my.instance and you get logged in to whatever server you clicked login on.