You are, I guess, an introvert. I am too. That doesn’t mean you should rule out making friends with people. It just means you have a lower threshold for how much socialization works for you. If you can, find a therapist, and I don’t mean this in a condescending way at all. It sounds like you have some kind of chip on your shoulder preventing you from attaining something that we as humans emotionally need - which is connection.
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I like how our society places so much responsibility on private companies to manage communities, really what could go wrong. Just institutionally protected employees that are nothing more than power tripping Reddit mods because Reddit hired a decent amount of them and put them in high positions, solidifying the toxic moderator culture they already had.
I’ve seen the admins go on really petty vendettas against people for just mentioning them in threads, shadow banning them for the dumbest reasons. Just know your ban doesn’t mean you failed in any way, this company is just morally bankrupt, as are many other companies like it in several industries.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Reddit permabanned my account for speaking out against pedos.
7·6 months agoWhile there’s certainly a lack of content (and by extension diverse voices) compared to Reddit here, there’s definitely less corporate manipulation. It’s a nice pallet cleanser of that gross astroturfing fiefdom.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
1·8 months agoA lot of this is reductionist and kind of generalizing. Really depends on what we’re talking about. There are ways to punish companies and hit them where it hurts, money, for instance. There are ways to lobby Congress. I’m just saying there’s a framework for being strategic about these things, and distilling it down to violent uprising is just lacking any nuance any of these types of conversations actually deserve.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
1·8 months agoHow is wanting to avoid civil war “mainstream”? I mean sure, go and promote revolution from the comfort of your climate controlled box with modern amenities, detached from the horrors of war. The feds have tanks.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
24·8 months agoDiplomacy, conflict resolution, etc. Not really motivated to fight against the tide of lemmy people sipping koolaid. But if you step outside the echo chamber, it’s mostly common sense.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
25·8 months agoYeah, that was 200 years ago. We have better ways to handle things now.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
2·8 months agoVery recent history shows Republican senators are almost entirely to blame.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
13·8 months agoThat’s still a violent thing to wish on people.
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politics @lemmy.world•Senate rejects extension of health care subsidies as costs are set to rise for millions of Americans
211·8 months agoViolence generally doesn’t get what you want out of the system.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Hi guys, how many of you are here as an alternative to Reddit?
1·8 months agoThese were my old accounts, they are forcing a password change, probably in hopes of me clicking their referral links and self-identifying my current IP with my old accounts. Shady behavior in any case.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Hi guys, how many of you are here as an alternative to Reddit?
7·8 months agoMy current Reddit account I carefully curated and built is unbanned but associated to a different email, but my primary email is actually receiving new emails as of this week that my old accounts are permabanned. That alone is not noteworthy, but over the past couple months some of my other alts have had their passwords reset at random, with emails asking me to verify. These are not phishing emails, but actually from Reddit. I think they’re on to me and trying to get a confirmation, but not clicking those links so they can do their IP identification. Sociopathic, vindictive, people run Reddit apparently. Like sorry for dissenting and calling out specific employees that have bullied me, your operation is surely not corrupt. /s
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news@lemmings.world•X and Cloudflare down for thousands of usersEnglish
2·8 months agoIt sucks that literally every website I try to visit doesn’t work anymore. Yeah, let’s just keep putting all our eggs in a single basket and see what happens - thanks 2025 capitalism.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Is it ok for me to ask someone to post my post to reddit?
1·9 months agoReddit isn’t worth it as it’s now run by fascists, but if you really have to, the best way to create an account is to just use a new IP. This could just be your phone with wifi disabled. Most carriers use ipv6 now, they’re not going to be able to track the rotating IPs your phone carrier assigns. Create the account with a browser you haven’t used Reddit with before and let it sit for a few months. Then use it carefully. Really, not defending the gatekeeping and if anything condemning it, but just telling you how to work around it.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Can Reddit corporate executives hurt Lemmy ?
9·10 months agoThose snoo avatars for the execs look like the most soulless looking art styles possible, sort of like how Chuck E Cheese got rebranded. Pretty gross.
I’ve gone out of my way to avoid giving Microsoft money over their continual hypocrisy on almost virtually any issue I care about. Really, a shitty company that gets away with way too much.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Millionaire Alexis Ohanian walked out of the LSAT 20 minutes in, went to a Waffle House and decided he was ‘gonna invent a career.’ He founded Reddit
1·11 months agoI was building a Reddit clone a long time ago and this man has followed my Github profile for the last 10 years. Of course that was a different era. That’s my anecdote though, I think underneath all of these silicon bros is a spoiled nerdy interior that sold out. Kind of sad.
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Technology@lemmy.world•Trump threatens tariffs on countries that ‘discriminate’ against US techEnglish
92·11 months agoRight, except the tariff gets baked into the price your importer pays to bring the product into the US. So while you don’t cut a check to the US Treasury, your buyer does, and that either makes your product less competitive or forces you to eat the cost in your margins. But yeah, “carry on”.
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Reddit@lemmy.world•Steve Huffman's straw man: "[Reddit's most devoted volunteers] used to tell us not to grow."
16·1 year agoA lot of people profile him as just a weird nerd and treat him like a digital punching bag, but I think it’s a mistake to underestimate a censorship extremist who built an empire on unpaid labor. Ironically, the loudest “fuck this guy” comments often help him, because they reinforce the idea that opposition is just angry noise, not serious critique. That plays better in mainstream media than you’d think.


Why broadcast this on a community dedicated to bitching about reddit of all places? Seems like a cry for help. You won’t find it on social media, unfortunately. Find a therapist.