Yeah and seem to mess with blood pressure way too much.

Hmm another mention of poppers, but they still scare me a bit. 😅

Literally me.

It sounds like your sexuality is expanded overall (like multi-dimensionally)

That’s such an interesting way to say it, haven’t thought of it that way before. Now you got me thinking. 😅

I always practice it either by edging without release or by doing anal play, but I haven’t caged myself long term yet.

The effects for me are:

• being on the verge of arousal all of the time, which is such a fun feeling
• being a lot more in touch with my kinks and sexuality, without any shame
• a significant reducing of overthinking
• a lot more leaking, which I find really arousing
• sexual fantasies are longer and more detailed
• I appreciate my whole body a lot more, I can just touch everywhere forever

What’s the longest you’ve gone without an orgasm?

For me it was 30 days.

If done intentionally, what were you hoping to achieve?

The first time I did, it was just to see how I’d feel. Since then it has become a normal part of my sexuality. What I’m hoping to achieve every time now are the effects I listed above.

Why did you end the orgasm denial streak?

Sometimes it’s by accident, but I’ve gotten better at this. My discipline is definitely a lot better now. When it’s not by accident I just felt like I’ve pushed myself enough and allow myself a release. Sometimes I set a specific amount of days as a minimum.

Did you do it solo or with a partner?

For me it’s been solo.

Also, if you’re into this sort of thing

I definitely am as you can probably tell and I instantly subscribed, thanks for making it! We definitely need more proper communities for this topic. Also thank you for making this post!

Ah I see, well still nice, but yeah like you said it’s not something that can be done often.

I’ll probably skip them for now, but thanks for sharing! I’m sure that most people who use poppers responsibly are fine, but I’m just not feeling too comfy with them.

Oh interesting, I’m sure such a come up would make the trip really nice afterwards.

I’ve been curious about them as well, but they kind of scare me. Also the short duration seems weird. I wonder if nitrous will have a similar effect.

Have you had any bad side effects from poppers?

I’m assuming the trip didn’t involve a high dose, because my comedowns on higher doses were always weird.

Well Cannabis is definitely very different for everybody. Not only that but a single person can have different “phases” with it. I’ve had periods where I’m sure it wouldn’t have worked for me as well. At some point I just felt it doing it for me, that’s when I started using it more for sex.

I’m definitely curious about psychedelics with sex, I hope to eventually try that. Although it’s not something you can do often. My idea with the post is if people have a substance they often use in a sexual context.

I feel like from the psychedelics, 2C-B probably has the highest potential to be very erotic. From my experience it doesn’t push you deep in your mind the same way mushrooms and LSD do and as a bonus it’s quite stimulating. The sensitivity enhancement is also quite impressive. It has a reputation for being erotic. I’ve never tried it with sex or masturbation, but I can definitely see the potential from my experience. People calling it a weird mixture of LSD and MDMA, I think are right, at least it felt that way to me as well. Although again, it probably depends on the person and it definitely depends on set and setting.

LSD and mushrooms I also haven’t tried for sex or masturbation. By intuition I feel like in lower dosages they can probably work. It’s not impossible in higher dosages, but I feel like you won’t be able to focus as you’re exploring your mind and your environment and also your perspective on sex might feel quite alien, not to mention the body load probably feeling distracting. I might be totally wrong though so take it with a grain of salt, that’s just my personal thinking about them right now.

Yeah starting early in the high is the best way for sure.

Well since most current IRC networks either don’t allow NSFW or are too chaotic for it, I just decided to make an open source one where people can directly contribute and steer it however the community wants. Even if you find a NSFW channel/network it’s almost always just porn without any actual discussions. People just spamming links. I’m talking from direct experience. What made me inspired to start this project was writing with people via private messages and seeing how much enthusiasm is actually out there and there’s just no good place to gather or at least I haven’t found one. I also wanted to practice with Ansible, which was a bonus.

Bet it’s a bit more active and interactive than Lemmy NSFW

Well as I wrote in the website: “The idea is to have ‘live’ discussions and sharing, not act as a ‘forum’. Sometimes people need a direct real time chat (hopefully not with a bot), so this is why the network exists.”

I have plans to add more interactive elements in the future like a way for setting users as “Owned by” or “Owning” for BDSM play and more mechanisms to deal with spammers and etc. but for now I’m just focusing my energy on getting the basics working and seeing if there’s real interest and if people would gather. To me it’s a really interesting technical and social challenge, so even if it doesn’t work as I intended, well my effort and ideas are still out in the open and people can use them if they wish, I’m also learning along the way.

The same as any IRC network, chat. It’s brand new so still pretty empty, that’s why I’m making the post.

I’m sure! Alcohol usually didn’t work well for me, but it’s different for everyone.

Nice! ^^ Do you have a usual pick or is it just whatever the circumstance is?

Having to pee often is a problem with edging in general. Can’t imagine what it’s like if you’re drinking beers.

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It’s not like they haven’t attacked since forever anyway, so nothing’s really changing.