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  • I don’t get the sense the therapist was trying to “police” them at all. They said people might perceive him as less male if he calls his chests “breasts.” Maybe not a great move to give advice as a therapist, but hardly a reason to terminate therapy.

    Therapists are humans who make errors and miscommunications just like everyone else. Part of going to therapy is learning to be able to talk through your emotions about these things, and part of being a therapist is continually repairing the relationship when it gets strained. If he brings this up with his therapist and gets pushback, that would be a different story, but that’s unlikely to be the case given what we know. He should just tell her how it made him feel.

















  • I think the point is that unbridled capitalism is creating increasing wealth inequality that many straight, white men are feeling but aren’t accurately attributing to their being on the losing end of wealth inequality. This could be ameliorated with any number of policies in a capitalist system, such as a more progressive tax code, better labor protections, or universal healthcare, but the US employs none of these, and straight, white men are largely blaming women, immigrants, and LGBTQ people instead of the class of people keeping them poor.