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the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Men who feel like fully functional people, how did you get there?
5·3 months agoThe feeling of isolation is something that I have experienced throughout life. I can only attribute it to the norm that men should not talk about their woes, lest they be seen as weak.
My upbringing was a bit different, as my brother and I never had male role models growing up and we were never encouraged to confirm to those norms.
For me personally, the feeling of isolation occured and eventually compounded after the birth of our son. I did not cope well with the lack of sleep and the immediate loss of personal space and time. I felt like my feelings and experiences could never compare to what my wife was going through, and I had no right to complain. This led me to nearly a decade of depression, to the detriment of my wife and son both.
What has helped me over time, is the acknowledgement that my feelings and experiences are valid, and I don’t need to compare them to others.
I love steamed clams!
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
tumblr@lemmy.world•If you ever want to feel old, read the notes on posts like this
2·5 months agoCommander Keen
Neverhood
Earthbound
Super Mario World
Secret of Mana
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
tumblr@lemmy.world•If you ever want to feel old, read the notes on posts like this
2·5 months agoJourneyman was amazing! Great story and pretty amazing 3D rendered graphics for the time.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
[Locked] YUROP@lemm.ee•Urine, an actual Belgian beer (double IPA)
261·5 months agoDoes it taste like Bud Light?
Howdy-do, fellow minute-man!
If your dick can’t do the walking, let your tongue do the talking.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Shitty Superpowers@hilariouschaos.com•You can make people drunk by touching themEnglish
2·7 months agoDoes it work if you touch yourself? Are the effects stacking?
Memory recall is the worst for me. Long-term or short-term, cognitive; all bad.
- Did you remember to grab your laptop on your way to work? Nope.
- Do you remember going to the movie theater, sitting in your seat, and watching the new animated Adams Family movie with your family? Nope.
- Did you move that load of towels from the washer to the dryer four days ago? Nope.
- Did you remember your wife’s name after fifteen years of marriage when introducing her to your new coworkers? Nope.
- Do you remember the word for that super simple thing? It’s literally the opposite of down, and you should definitely not be stumbling on this word because we’re on a conference call. Nope.
Wow. This comments section reads like 50 various versions of Colin Robinson, all swarming on this very post. Every single one of them finding a way to be more pedantic or curmudgeonly than the other.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Electronics@discuss.tchncs.de•Pretty part of the week: Ruishen RSCM11548 3-winding common-mode chokeEnglish
2·10 months agoThank you! As a software engineer, I can understand the necessity for impotency. You don’t want the same request sent twice.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Electronics@discuss.tchncs.de•Pretty part of the week: Ruishen RSCM11548 3-winding common-mode chokeEnglish
2·10 months agoThis is a beautiful work of art! Can you ELI5 what this is, please?
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Ukraine@sopuli.xyz•Putin arrived in Kazakhstan and someone replaced the Russian flag with the Ukrainian flag on a giant LED sign in the capitol.
2·11 months agoI hope you didn’t accidentally fall out of a window.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Games@lemmy.world•What games have you put the most hours into?English
2·11 months agoI have over 1500 cumulative hours invested in No Man’s Sky and Minecraft respectively. I am a casual gamer. I started playing Minecraft in 2012 and NMS in 2017.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
memes@lemmy.world•Even the ones that trick you by starting out cheap
9·1 year agoNever get into Modular Synthesizers.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Privacy@lemmy.ml•Store making me feel like an outcast because of privacy concerns
7·1 year agoSome email services will let you append arbitrary strings to the end of your email address with a +. Whenever a sales associate asks for my email to sign up for discounts, I give them email+spam@provider.com. I love the looks I get for that.
I suppose it depends on your tastes, but I read Pitchfork reviews and check out the artits on Spotify. I do not limit my tastes to one genre, so that makes it more interesting when exploring. I’ll also leverage the Related Artists section of an artist’s page if I find a new artist that I like.
the_radness@lemmy.worldto
Technology@lemmy.world•Amazon cloud boss says employees unhappy with 5-day office mandate can leaveEnglish
15·1 year agoI have been laid off from every job (5 in total) since the pandemic. We are a subhuman commodity. Companies that are hiring now are exploiting the market by offering lower salaries.
Meta and Amazon are in their hiring season and they’ll start their layoffs again next spring or summer. And somehow, everyone forgets this fucked up cycle keeps happening in perpetuum.
We need to stop being afraid of mentioning the U word. We need better protection and rights as employees.






Not unless they also mention racism, transphobia and homophobia as the other line items.