• Valmond@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    Can you divorce him? Or even if it is legal, are you too tied up financially to do it?

    Also, could you, technically, have another man?

    Third: was you chosen by him or did you have men before you choose eachoder?

    • maybetomorrow@lemmy.worldOP
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      4 months ago

      As a woman you have to prove some kind of neglect / abuse in order to be granted a divorce. I have my own savings and assets. No. I chose him, I married fairly young (20), I didn’t have anyone else. Unrelated men and women don’t just casually spend time together (of course it does happen in secret, as does dating in secret) - it’s inappropriate.