Not recent, but my mom was impressively oblivious. Like, she asked us to guess if our sister’s baby would be a boy or girl and I said “idk, maybe we’ll find out in [insert my own age] years” and the next time I visited I mentioned I rather not be referred to as “uncle” and that I’d prefer “aunt” to that and somehow she still didn’t take a hint. Also things like growing my hair out, using hair clips, scrunchies, regularly painting my toe nails, and growing small boobs also went without notice.

TBF, I suspect her cis wife picked up that I might be trans long nearly 2 years before I came out (because she explicitly asked me if I was a trans woman nearly two years before after we had a couple of trans guests over at their house for Christmas). But even she commented after I came out that I “suddenly” had boobs. My stepmom has not really been transphobic like my mom though and she tries to avoid that topic in front of my mom.