• taxiiiii@lemmy.world
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      13 hours ago

      It’s terrible advice if you struggle with it.

      I however cry quite easily. In hindsight all this “don’t suppress your feelings” advice honestly always felt more directed at boys and men.

      Learning to turn off and distract yourself from bad feelings is also a skill. I think quite a few people - especially women - struggle with that, me included.

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      1 day ago

      Eh, it depends on the situation. There is definitely a time and place for locking your emotions down. Most people will never need it though.

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        21 hours ago

        Maybe for the sake of maintaining social status, sure, but that’s a sacrifice. Its just straight up physically unhealthy to stifle crying however.

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          20 hours ago

          Oh no I mean like physical requirements. Like on the side of a mountain you’re climbing.