I’ve heard people doing Roleplay sometimes like to engage their sexual fantasies they can’t actually do, but what’s keeping you in a dead bedroom, Is it the family bonding or?

I’m a woman with a high sexual libido and I would never survive that.

  • MapleEngineer@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    2 months ago

    My wife had a very difficult childhood. She was raped by a cousin at 11. Her father was physically and emotionally abusive and her mother was drunk and abusive. She ran away and lived on the street and did what she had to do to survive. I knew all of that going in. We had a varied and very active sex life and had two great kids. We had a couple of threesomes with other women that were great for everyone involved. Her past caught up with her about 10 years ago and became sexual. I suggested counseling but she doesn’t care about sex so she isn’t interested. We talked about it a lot and she finally said, “I am asexual but I believe that I have made it very clear that I don’t expect you to be.” I asked if she wanted me to be open about it with her and she said, “No. I don’t want to know and I don’t want it to get back to me.” We live in a small town and she doesn’t want people talking.

      • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.comEnglish
        6·
        2 months ago

        erthromycin:

        Erythromycin is an antibiotic used for the treatment of a number of bacterial infections. This includes respiratory tract infections, skin infections, chlamydia infections, pelvic inflammatory disease, and syphilis. It may also be used during pregnancy to prevent Group B streptococcal infection in the newborn, and to improve delayed stomach emptying. It can be given intravenously and by mouth.

        Uhhhh…

        Kind of an odd thing to be in an autocorrect dictionary…

        Anyway, I think he’s trying to say that his wife had a very sexually (and just generally) traumatic childhood, sometime now into their marriage, after they had previously done several threesomes, she is now simultaneously saying “I am asexual but I don’t expect you to be” and also “Don’t sleep with people in our town.”

        So… I guess she is saying that he would need to go far out of town to have sex, that would be ok with her?

        ???

        Either way, none of this really describes “what’s keeping him in” or how/why he’s handling it.