• Cybersec@piefed.social
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    4 days ago

    You got some good points, people too often assume the worst and jump to defensiveness.

    • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      Because when women get caught off guard, we’re stalked, raped, and/or murdered by men.

      Women looking out for each other in subtle ways isn’t the big bad issue in this scenario.

        • velma@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          4 days ago

          Ya’ll are part of the loneliness problem. Do better and stop assuming the worst of others. You’re not smart. You’re not helping. You’re paranoid weirdos.

          Pardon?

          • LurkingLuddite@piefed.social
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            5 hours ago

            Yep, you are confirmed part of the problem.

            You literally assumed, “being quiet” from a partner as, “I want attention from my partner and I’m going to act weird until I get it.”

            Part of the problem.

    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today
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      3 days ago

      It feels so good to know you are just better in a way than certain people, just allows you to go “Uh-huh, sure” knowing that you have better things to do, probably a decent future, and that you have done enough for society already, the accusations and offenses no longer matter.

      The actually hateful people can burn in their self-righteousness. That’s how you avoid being flammed.