• velma@sh.itjust.worksOP
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    11 days ago

    You said we don’t have a rape culture here, it’s just politicians and Hollywood. In fact, you said this rhetoric was DUMB.

    People don’t care enough about rape to blacklist rapists.

    Most rapists know their victims. Think family members and partners. It’s not just celebrities and politicians.

    Most rapists don’t see jail time.

    You should really check out rainn.org.

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        10 days ago

        Is this some kind of sick joke that you’re going to rape someone because it’s easy to get away with it?

        I hope you’re not married.

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          10 days ago

          You know what - you are right. I changed my mind. The West has a pervasive rape culture of men allowed to get away with it. I just checked out my wife and her friend’s search histories and the kind of demented smut that they LOVE is centered around our argument. Archiveofourown, booktok, literotica.

          The primary themes of women’s porn is cheating on their SO and getting “taken” by men and monsters. And “taken” is code for Non-consensual but not that they didn’t enjoy it.

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            10 days ago

            The fact that you’re commenting this on a post where McGregor was on an incredibly popular late night talk show after raping a woman so violently she had to have a tampon surgically removed is fucking poetry.

            Do better.

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                10 days ago

                What does it do for you to make fun of rape and rape victims?

                Do you really believe that they should just shut up and go away and stop speaking about the people who do this to them?

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                  10 days ago

                  For starters I am a “survivor”. Abused by my older cousins. But because I am not a girl (or trans) I don’t usually get the sympathy afforded to others.

                  And I have never once said they should shut up and go away. Your bull shit gas lighting does that.

                  I think abusers should be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. Up to and including the death penalty.

                  But you are looking for a fight and I am the only one giving you anything for your easy buttons to be pushed.

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                    10 days ago

                    “This rhetoric is dumb”

                    You said enough.

                    Oh yeah and you joked about raping someone. So funny. You’re such a laugh!

                    You compared women cheating to men raping them, too.

                    You’re not the only one to nag at me hahaha, don’t flatter yourself.

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              10 days ago

              There goes California again… The exact rape culture I was trying to point out to you.

              Who doesn’t think that is a travesty of justice

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                10 days ago

                The jury? The entire system that allows for only 1-3 years for a man who raped his own daughter until she killed herself?

                It’s cool, I’ve got you tagged as a rape denier anyway. Keep being you!

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                  10 days ago

                  I am not denying it, tell me where I am denying it. You just don’t like that 40 year old rhetoric doesn’t work like it used to. And that I agree with, but not enough to go down the same rabbit hole you have.

                  I think they call it, purity testing.

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                    10 days ago

                    When did this rhetoric ever work? When were rapists properly punished? Show me this golden era that saw real justice for victims, y’know when it “used to work”.