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4 days agoTrials in Tainted Space.
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Thallo [she/her]
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I hear from a lot of trans people that they struggle with having a stable identity.
I’ve really felt this recently. It’s good to know I’m not alone
At that length, it’s gonna be kind of tough and whatever you do will probably lean boyish as opposed to full on feminine.
You likely will want to have it cut in a way that will grow out nice. You should go to a salon and ask what haircut will grow out well.
some very short fem styles
13·18 days agoWait… You were all doing it IRONICALLY?
Do you think Amy Rose could get over her obsession with sonic and consider dating women if she met a cute trans girl? (Not me) (Asking for a friend)
The short version is that over the years I’ve learned to disassociate as a coping mechanism, and once I realized I was trans I wanted to move away from that, which is a good thing, of course. The catch though is that, given I have a long time before being able to fully transition, my identity and sense of self is propped up by the ideal version of myself that I’m trying to become. Something I was reading got me thinking back again on how I’d previously experience the world as an egg. Knowing what I know now, however, I was no longer able to disassociate from my current or past reality and just started to spiral.
I’m going through this rn too :/
Idk it seems like just yelling HORNY HORNY HORNY would be easier to communicate in a loud setting
Change up your dating strategy. Instead of talking about mahjong, try telling everyone how horny you are.
It could work
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I’m starting to feel like I deserve a toxic relationship or something
You do not. You’re just hurting right now.
I need something, I need someone to feel something at me
This is a totally normal human need, trans or not
Maybe this is the trans experience, commenters and peers alike watching me spit and sputter until I deflate like a balloon. “We will not, shall not, intervene until you say the magic words”
I’m sorry to say there are no magic words. People try to help here and give support, but it’s always just solidarity and advice. This kind of pain is part of the trans experience but it is far from the entirety. Figuring this shit out really hurts, but there’s beauty in it as well.
Do you all just have communities IRL? Because for me the lack of in person community has been the biggest hurdle to figuring anything out, and yet Hexbear reacts to me with “befuddlement” because I yearn for community.
I don’t have one. I wish I did. Closest I have is online friends I met here. It’s really normal to want to be around other queer people, to talk with them, to touch them. It’s hard when you don’t have it. I really can’t imagine that anyone here is befuddled by that.
I want to experience sex as a woman. I want someone to see me as desirable, irresistible. I want to make someone go crazy because I’m magic to them.
Yeah, I mean, I’ve felt this exact same way. Of course, who wouldn’t want to feel that way?
To be honest, you’re really beating yourself over these things, and it seems like the self judgements are hurting you a lot. You paint yourself as some kind of outsider, but I don’t think anything you’ve ever posted has been very problematic or even strange. I see you, and I see a very typical trans person who is in pain and is saying normal trans things.
If you’re yearning for community, I suggest finding local queer gatherings. It will ease the pain.
My thoughts are with you. That’s very brave
I think it’s normal.
Sometimes I think I’m really pretty. Other times I think I’m hideous. It really depends more on your mood, so you’re probably in a better headspace
Wrong. The correct answer should only be “show her the dog girl pic”
12·20 days agoThere’s a video on the channel where he seasons babies and then fries them, creating some sort of KFC analogue, then eats the fried babies
Mr. Beast practices Gonzalo thought?
I should take my own advice sometimes
Write a note to yourself in the future. Explain to her that you genuinely feel content and authentic. Let her know that it’s possible for her to feel this way, regardless of however she’s feeling when she reads it.
Read it when you’re feeling doubtful.
There’s a woman in my office who makes little gifts for the other women in the office during holidays, and I never get one, and it makes me sad
I think about that plotline a lot.
I think our inclination is to side with violent resistance to the settler state, but ultimately the stance that the game takes is the one that was vindicated by history.
Armed resistance would not have solved the problem. It would be impossible to overcome the settler state. The route of just trying to survive and outlast the state is what we see happening today. I don’t think the game says this is a good thing, just inevitable.