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  • Absolute@lemmygrad.mltomemes@hexbear.netZootopia (2016)
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    3 months ago

    Liberals can’t make any media about resistance to exploitation that doesn’t do both sides bad.

    Played Assassin’s Creed Mirage recently and the whole time the game was trying to make me think the rebels who wanted to free all of the slaves are actually kinda bad because they do violence sometimes. It’s not relevant to the main story really at all but they still shoehorn it in at every opportunity. Good luck convincing me that former slaves who want to kill their masters aren’t based.









  • I feel like the differences are negligible if you aren’t hardline about it. The complaints I have seen people make are fair but I definitely don’t think they detract from the game in a substantial way. Majora’s Mask is one of my all time favorite games and I’ve also played the original dozens of times and nothing about the 3DS version was an issue for me.



  • Havent read rest of the thread yet so maybe this has been brought up already, but biggest thing for me especially when younger is the stigma towards men having female friends. I’ve always been the sort of guy that finds it easier to connect and form friendships with women than men, and as such most of my closest friends throughout my life have been women.

    It was always exhausting to explain to extended family or whoever that just because I’m close friends with a women doesnt mean that there is a romantic or sexual aspect to our relationship. It can be frustrating to be out in public with a female friend have it be assumed that you are in a romantic relationship of some sort by restaurant staff or similar. I would say it has also impacted my ability to actually have a relationship like that with someone as well because people assume that I’m not straight because of my close relations with various women, and it is frustrating to be asked if you are gay just because you are out at the club with your female friends. The stereotype of the “gay best friend” I really do not like because I don’t think sexuality and attraction is cut and dry like that and I feel uncomfortable trying to explain this to people, especially in the context of being at a club or party. I’ve also had a tough time in the past with women I’m trying to see in romantic capacity being upset that I have female friends that I want to spend time with as well, despite the fact that we’ve been friends for over a decade and our relationship has never been anything other than platonic.

    Basically I’ve always struggled with the fact that many social forces make it seem like it is not acceptable for a guy to be close with a woman if they aren’t trying to fuck them. Really bothers me and has definitely made me doubt myself in the past, and sadly also caused me to drift away from some previously close friends.