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Cake day: June 29th, 2023

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  • It’s not a problem. I also prefer busty women. That’s not to say I only find large breasted women attractive, I’ve found women of many shapes and sizes beautiful, but when push comes to shove big tits just really do it for me.

    And yeah I get the discomfort. Hell, I’m insecure about my medium sized boobs. But I’ve been in relationships where I’m the boob girl with a killer ass and my partner is an ass girl with a killer rack, so it has worked.

    That said, you may have some hangups and fetishization here based on what you’ve said. Like, don’t get me wrong, being dominated by a woman with tits the size of my head is a description of one of my ideal sexy nights. But large breasts aren’t dominant, they’re just socially favored, in the same way being tall is. And you gotta make sure you’re looking at the person the boobs are on even while lusting after her. Because yeah, they’re awesome but when you’re done cowering in their shadow and done burying your face into them for aftercare, you’re hanging out with her more than them, and the whole time you were doing all that you were doing it to her. They’re just a body part she has, and if you forget that you just give her another reason to feel insecure about them outshining her.










  • My mom was just an awful cook and my father didn’t cook. I learned by starting with recipes off the internet. The more I did it the better I got. I also started making bread with my sister as a way to bond with her when our family was falling apart.

    Once you understand to season to taste and have some recipes it’s not hard. And you pick up more skills where you see them, and grow familiar with new ingredients as you use them. Simple recipes are simple, and while many of them have depths of complexity the fact is you can’t really fuck up american style tacos or baked ziti that bad if you follow the instructions and set timers. And if that’s still a problem start with something cheap like rice and beans and accept that it’ll be fine and you’ll screw up sometimes. The biggest thing is learning what works/doesn’t and why.

    Oh also I grew up on good eats which taught a lot. I then graduated to seriouseats and use J Kenji Lopez Alt’s recipes and guides wherever I can, he explains the why wonderfully



  • You still need educated people under communism. To do the science, design the machines, figure out how to ensure resources are best allocated to meet everyone’s needs, to analyze history so we don’t make the same mistakes over and over.

    That said, one should study because knowledge is a great gift and one that those who wish to oppress you want you to lack.






  • Ok but height really isn’t enough to make it that. I’ve dated short women who I was attracted to because of how womanly (mature, mom bod) they were. The first specs of gray hair, the sagging of giant tits, the wide hips… Her being short was honestly mostly an inconvenience because I had to bend over pretty far to kiss her.

    Then you’ve got folks like my friends who are in the upper half of 6’. Everyone is short to them. They aren’t going to go to tall communities just to find relationships. One is now dating an abnormally tall woman and he’s happy about it.

    Sometimes two people just click. I’d be skeptical if someone kept intentionally dating young looking people significantly shorter than them, or if they were into the sort of stuff your words describe that content as. But that content isn’t the majority of relationships with major height differences. The only people getting off on the stuff I’m talking about are greedy chiropractors.


  • Also to the tall person that isn’t the ratio of height of a child. They’ve most likely been that height since they were a teenager and think of the height of a child as the height that children are. Sure it may be waist height instead of chest height, but that’s how tall kids are to them. It’s not like you’re 25 and have been dating around for a while and suddenly grew 6 inches and are uncomfortable because women in your dating pool are suddenly a proportional height you associate with children.

    This is also amusing to me as a tall woman who prefers older women and keeps getting short ones.