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Cake day: July 27th, 2023

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  • Sleeping all day was not the best idea. This time of year is topsy turvy and a massive depression hole.

    Edit: Well I put away the dishes in the rack so it’s free to do more tomorrow. Put baking soda down the sink. Folding to free up the baskets.

    I need to just sew the waistbands back on the ill fitting trackies and donate them because I don’t care enough to finish altering them.

    Hoping everything opens up again soon so I can make phone calls and appointments.




  • Mmm. I don’t think they are good for neurodivergent people. From what I can see there’s lots of flaky, confusing, and even bad behaviour on the apps.

    Everywhere really, but especially with the expectation for a fast pace which could lead to entangling with someone you don’t know very well. It probably is safer to get to know people first.

    NSFW

    Also a lot of people on apps may be specifically looking for casual sex or situationships while not being honest and upfront about it.

    Yapping about pressure

    The people in your life mean well and may want you settled down, but consider for yourself whether that’s something you want or are ready to pursue at this point. Whether it feels good for you or leaves a feeling of doubt in your stomach.

    There’s this rush to try and find a partner in your twenties and it can be very lonely or even excluded if you’re not dating. The subtle icing out of single women and the social pressure to partner up is real, and it’s easy to feel lost or behind.

    But you don’t have to move that fast. And there are people out there that can really derail your progress in life. Maybe you might want to take some time for yourself, build up your career and emergency savings, and maybe find some trustworthy girlfriends to have your back if possible. This world can be brutal for neurodivergent women.

    Just my 2 cents. Because you mention people actively trying to set you up and urging you to use apps and I wanted to say you don’t have to do anything you’re not 100% on board with. There’s no rush. 🖤