I finally got around to seeing “I Saw The TV Glow”, and it definitely lived up to the hype.

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  • musicenjoyer [it/its, xe/xem]@hexbear.netEnglish
    18·
    1 day ago

    gender cw : dysphoria, discussion of essentialism

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    I don’t have a gender , I used to identify as transmasc but don’t relate to masculinity so I think agender is right. Don’t like being perceived as or being a woman but wouldn’t like being a man either. I hate the ‘born this way’ narrative, we shouldn’t have to justify why we’re trans. I feel a lot of research about gender being “hardwired” just reinforces bio essentialism under the name of ‘acceptance’ , it’s always agab language and treating sex as an absolute truth. i didn’t fully realize everything until recently , like I said earlier trans people don’t need justification for why they exist.

    • Thallo [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
      15·
      24 hours ago
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      Yeah, anytime people bring up the “actually, trans brainwaves are more in line with their preferred gender than their assigned one 🤓”

      I’m like… Stfu? Who fucking cares what my brainwaves look like? That data cannot be used for good.