Basically the title. Just curious how your experiences have been and what you like about it or get out of it personally. I’m thinking about seeing a prostitute. It’s been something that I found hot and exciting for a while and since I am now single again, I’m looking for some opinions or stories.

  • sasoni75@lemmynsfw.com
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    16 hours ago

    It was good. I first texted the girl, asked her for availability and what she does, then I went to her place, took a quick shower, went to the bedroom, had a chat with her on what positions we are gonna do and started. I started with massage on her feet, then licked her pussy, and finally different positions.

    Tips: Most likely, you will do a shower there before and after. Check what she will do and not(positions, cum on her face, swallowing etc).
    Chat with her before and after the session.
    Be aware of scams, for the independent mainly. If she asks you for a deposit, like 20% or 50% of the session ahead, don’t do it.
    If it’s independent, search her mobile number on google to be sure.

    edit: There are forums where people discuss about this and give reviews.

  • Amara@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    If you are seriously considering one, then a few things to keep in mind:

    • Don’t go to a cheap place
    • Know what kind of experience you want (romantic, fwb, roleplay, bdsm etc)
    • Relax and have fun!
  • Geobloke@lemm.ee
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    3 days ago

    I wasn’t going to say anything, but I feel the urge to yell into the void.

    I was in Taiwan for a week solo going hiking and loving the food (seriously the street food in Taipei is underhyped.) I’d booked a few nights in hong kong back to my home country to break up the journey and hike a few of the hills there. My first night there, I was feeling a bit lonely, not horny, just genuinely looking for some people to chat to. I’d been in Taiwan for a week and hadn’t had a really good chat with anyone apart from my wife every few nights.

    Reddit said there were some good pubs not far from my hotel, both were popular with foreigners and I thought I’d check them out and maybe get some insights on what to do some I was there. The first place I went to, I met 2 German guys and had a good couple of hours long chat, but they had work the next day and went home. I wasn’t ready to go to bed yet, so I went to the next one. Reddit had said it was popular with prostitutes, but I loved my wife and was confident I could handle them.

    I got there, a nice cover band was playing, so I bought a beer and sat down to watch and see if anyone might be interested in having a chat. Almost immediately girls started flinging themselves at me, which really annoyed me so I tried my best to ignore them. They were wrapping themselves around my arm and trying to sit on my lap and I thought "fuck it, I’m finishing my beer and going home. " One of them must’ve put something in my beer, because my memory immediately goes and next thing I know I’m in a different bar with two girls touching me all over and buying drinks with my card (luckily my bank knew something was off and cancelled it. )

    They order us a cab and the whole time I’m saying i don’t want anything to do with either of you. They take me up to my room, presumably to see if there’s anything worth stealing. I’m with it enough by now to tell them to just go, they ask if they use my toilet, I say yes and then they leave. I go to sleep and don’t wake up for 18 hours.

    My main reason I’m telling this is to get out of my chest, but yeah, my experience was shite

  • Wanderer@lemm.ee
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    4 days ago

    Went out drinking with friends in Prague. Didn’t get lucky, but wasn’t really trying and started walking back.

    Some guy stopped us advertising something and making hang gestures and one of my friends didn’t want to go in because there was a fee to get in. I said I pay for him. So I thought the three of us were going to watch a sex show. Turns out it was a brothel. It was fucking scary going down in there because there all big guys and narrow winding corridors in the dark and gates to go through. At that point I really fucking regretted it but we had to keep going.

    Came out to a bar with a load of girls and a small stripper pole thing. Thank god. We got a beer each, I found out it was a brothel and the other guys knew haha and immediately girls were all over us it was real nice. We didn’t really have much time to do anything and they were trying to get us into another room I asked a girl how much. Said fuck it let’s go.

    She was touching me up and saying nice things real fake. Anyway we got naked and she was pretty and had a good body. Started going at it missionary and she was all "OMG. Your the best I’ve ever had. OMG. AAAWWW. AWWW! YES! OMG. YES just like that.

    I kept telling her to stop and to be quiet. Then eventually I was like “look. Seriously its putting me off”.

    Then we got into it. Then we really got into it. She was making all the right noises and holding me and I was holding her. It felt like a decent one nice stand. We got into it we kissed which when I thought back I was like how did that happen. We chatted, for a little and it was friendly. I asked if i could shower and she said no.

    When I went back into the main room to get my friends. I left she gave me a nice look and her friend was looking at me like she said something nice about me.

    It was really great actually. Then a few years later I went to the same place and it was meh

  • DavidDoesLemmy@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    I don’t know if I’ve ever had sex with a prostitute, but I do know that I’ve never paid for sex. Some women I’ve been with I don’t know what they did for work.

  • TheGuineaLion@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    My friend convinced me to go to prostitute, because I was too desperate looking for a girlfriend. However, I was looking for the romantic side of relationship, not really for sex, so it didn’t help me in the end.

    Either way, I lost my virginity to a prostitute, who didn’t look like on the website and didn’t enjoy it at all. I was so dissatisfied that… I went to another one the next day lol.

    It was a complete opposite experience. We had a little talk before and after sex. She said that she likes doing what she does and had a client almost every day and it showed. She had a lot of hobbies, was my type and I kinda fell in love… which definitely did not help, haha.

    Anyway, it seems that most prostitutes are more like the first one, where they couldn’t find a better job so they do what they do. I don’t know how people can find such encounters enjoyable, but whatever.

  • nesc@lemmy.cafe
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    4 days ago

    Experience was between below average and poor due to other party being as uninterested and bored as humanly possible while acting poorly. Reasons were somewhat similar to your own and extreme mental stress. Honestly the best part was just hanging out a bit after and drinking tea/chatting about things.

  • hydmonk@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    My experiences with sex workers have been wide and varied, much like sexual encounters with non professionals. It ranges from almost the worst sex I’ve ever had (that dubious honour goes to a non sex worker), up to the very best sex I’ve ever had.

    I have a regular that I see as often as I can because she is without a doubt, the best at what she does.

    In summary, sex workers are people, and as such some are great, some are bad, and most are somewhere in between.

  • Alborlin@lemmy.world
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    4 days ago

    It’s quite exciting, I have been to clubs imwhere nmthere are number of pros. You get to see what you like and choose along with music, I never drink alcohol so that never affects my judgement, I can vary my tastes and have fun. Its exciting because it’s forbidden kind of thing. Also I don’t like to look up on website and contact them for services, it’s takes away excitement for me somehow. What I am looking for is good service from start to finish not just main thing.