• Shellofbiomatter@lemmus.org
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    2 months ago

    Hit the gym, you’ll discover a good hobby earlier.

    Though knowing myself and my past. There isn’t anything i could say that would have any effect. Younger me wouldn’t believe, listen or trust anything i would say.

  • jupyter_rain@discuss.tchncs.de
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    2 months ago

    It’a never as urgent and stressfull as your brain tells you. Relax! And do some stupid shit instead of learning all the time.

  • bstix@feddit.dk
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    2 months ago

    I’d tell myself to prioritize my hobbies over partying. Be serious about the music and join a band. Move to a bigger city.

  • joelle_ether@piefed.blahaj.zone
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    Get off the computer, you don’t make a career of it no matter how much you try and don’t make any friends, and the web goes to shit anyways, also you’re probably not a boy. I doubt I would have listened to me though. PS, take care of your teeth.

  • wingedassault@piefed.social
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    The circumstances of one’s birth are irrelevant; it is what you do with the gift of life that determines who you are.

  • Daisy (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    2 months ago

    It’s OK to feel like a woman born in the wrong body. Please talk to people about it, they can help.

  • [object Object]@lemmy.ca
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    2 months ago

    Probably that all the things I felt were in fact not normal and there’s no shame in trying therapy or asking for accommodations.

    Definitely would have been good for my academic career.

    Not that things turned out bad for me, I followed my heart and it led to a good place. But I lost a few years and relationships to anxiety and depression that I could have fully lived.

  • Torn Apart By Dogs@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    It’s okay if you kill him. Everyone will understand and forgive you because of what he is doing. and You’re right. You’re a girl, kid.