My uncle used to give me gratuitous relationship advice, waxing on about how both parties have to give 100%. He’s had two failed marriages, both women were hot idiots, and he’s a racist narcissist. So, when people try to give relationship advice, I immediately assume that it’s awful advice, and probably something that they heard from a therapist or pastor because their own relationship is broken.
You don’t need to go over 50. Relationship takes care, if you take care of it, it will last. The key is communication.
Being married is about gaslighting your partner into thinking it’s a competition and that they are losing it, gotcha
Its about the whole being greater than the sum
Like… In mass? /s
Care about things they don’t care about.
Get angry when they don’t care enough about the stuff you’ve decided is important.
Understand it’s now your responsibility to sexually reward them when they eventually decide to do things your way.
