• Ookami38@sh.itjust.works
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      Only because we associate sexuality and “getting laid” with manhood. They aren’t the same. Are asexual men less men? No one’s gatekeeping manhood in this image, they’re gatekeeping sexuality.

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        But we do associate it with manhood. Until we move on from that mindset, it is an attack on someone’s manhood

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              Societal change starts with the individual. If one person today has changed their views, it’s a step.

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                I’m not doubting that, I’m just saying “we” as a society still associates the ability to get laid with manliness. And that’s not changing anytime soon