• Mickey7@lemmy.worldOP
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    I can’t think of anything less fun than having sex with someone who isn’t interested in doing it when you ask them

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      Yeah, you shouldn’t really need any other excuse then “sorry, not in the mood right now”. It’s also the weirdest excuse because sex often helps with a headache because it eases pain and tension (when done right).

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        That’s not really a myth but kind of is. Orgasm can cure a headache but only very temporarily. Like, the headache may be gone for less than a minute. Maybe don’t or ten minutes.

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        I’ve had people ask me to do them because they had a headache and my doing them would help them. Because I’m nice I readily complied

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        (when done right)

        Yeah that’s the problem. When men want to fuck a woman, they’re usually just interested in their own orgasm, care nothing about the woman’s pleasure, and relentlessly bang her brains out. That’s no cure for a woman’s headache. In fact just thinking of it can give a woman headache.

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          I don’t think it’s that they don’t care so much as they often don’t care very much and/or forget to care once they have gotten too worked up over the state of their own genitals to focus on anything else (so, more of a lack of self-awareness and self-control). This is speaking only to heterosexual sex with straight and bi men.

          Also, some women aren’t very into it if you don’t bang their brains out, if that’s what they’re feeling.