Also I live in the spider capital of the world cri

  • Feinsteins_Ghost [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    I fell from a four story scaffolding when I was about 25 back when I used to do stucco work. I was the scaffold bitch, and was up on a single 2x10, across two scaffold frames when a fork operator bumped the scaffold and I fell.

    My fault for not being clipped into fall protection, drunk operators fault for bumping the scaffolding. I’m the only one who had any repercussions, on top of a broken tibia. Six weeks in a cast.

    I developed a healthy fear of heights after that. To the point where I won’t stay in high rise buildings unless there are no windows. I can’t ride rolly coasters any more, will never fly again.

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      I surprisingly didn’t develop a phobia of heights after falling from an even higher height than four stories, despite becoming permanently disabled because of it. Like I thought maybe I would, but I can look over the side of buildings from the roof just fine.

      Still scared of most theme park rides, though. I got that from when I was a toddler.

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        Just the thought of looking over the edge of something like a building elicits a fear response in me.

        Panic. Fear. Irrational, even.

        ETA - I’ve flat out told my employers - if you send me on anything beyond two floors to chase roof drains/vents (I’m a plumber) Iwill turn in my keys and shove off. This is something I am firmly non negotiable on and have quit over, in the past.

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    Whales. Baleen whales specifically. Orcas? Sperm whales? Those are just giant dolphins and therefore cool. Orcas are even comrades. But pics or video footage of a humpback from any angle will reduce me to tears. Pure lizard brain terror. It’s fun because other people think they’re like, majestic and shit, so whale pics are common and seen as harmless.

    But no.

    Whales are sea monsters.

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        It’s a weird one cause it’s not thalassophobia. Subnautica is one of my favorite games, and I didn’t find it scary (can’t play the sequel though, it has a whale that is close enough to trigger the phobia).

        Very specifically baleen whales, and a few key sharks that remind me of them (whale sharks, basking sharks, and megamouths are all very borderline).

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        I’m too old for that to be the origin but yes I do not like that scene one bit! My mom blames Pinocchio, but Monstro is a sperm whale and those guys are cool.

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    I don’t like looking at the mouths of parasites. Specific, I know, but it makes my skin itch and I get antsy. Especially those photos of the lamprey mouths stuck to aquarium glass. Woof. No thx.

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    heights and needles. heavy on the second. i have multiple piercings and tattoos and i do an injection on myself weekly, and it has not gotten better and warrants the same level of panic every time.

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      Yeh in abstract I think they’re crazy cool, they eat annoying stuff and looking at (small) ones in their web is amazing. Like what an insane trick of evolution, this thing that can make art with its ass to trap and brutally murder other bugs.

      But then I see a big scary one and it’s pure lizard brain time.

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    Heights and the dark. Heights I get woozy standing on a chair, unfortunately I have to do a lot of maintenance that involves ladders so I’ve just gotten really good at being afraid and keeping going. Tried to break myself of it, did giant drops/VR falls/exposure etc. Nope, stools still make the floor yawn away and adrenaline spike but it turns out if you just sit with terror for a while it becomes boring and less distracting.

    I’ve been attacked a few times at night, that shit is scary ok. Also sometimes there might be spooky monsters alright? I’m 35 and I still can’t shake the dumb fear of spooky monsters if I wake at night from a nightmare. I carry an extremely bright torch because I’m enough of an adult about heights so dark can just fuck right off. Science beats spooky monsters that are definitely maybe there 🫣